Should i feel as bad as i do for this??? ?

Question

ok so the other day, me and my bf were at a party together, but we were off doing our own thing talking to our frineds for a little while. well me and some of my girl friends heard one of our fav songs come on and we went out ans started dancing. we were haaving a blast until this guy who is known for being a s**t at our school comes up and is totally drunk. he was grabbing my hips and stuff an being retarded soo i just lauged and told him to get off. well when i did this, he got pissed and pushed me really hard. i mean im only 5'4 an weigh 110 pounds, so when he pushed me, i pretty much flew back and hit the floor. my boyfriend saw the whole this and he ran over and started beating the **** out of the guy. and of corse, his boys backed him up and were kicking the guy. i feel horrible because the guy had to go to the hospial for a concusion and was seriously hurt. should i feel this bad?? or should i just say the guy got wat he deserved?? and thereason that i put this under mens health is because i wanted to see if you guys would have done the same thing is you saw someone doing that to your girlfriend or did my bf overreact??

Answer 1

Nah.. the dude was looking for trouble. Some guys get like that sometimes and like to be beaten up. Your bf was just doing him a favour. It's an even bet whether they will be best mates again tomorrow.

Answer 2

you bf overracted a little. But i can not tell you how you feel only you can tell your self how to fell.

Answer 3

You shouldn't feel bad about it. You didn't do anything but get pushed. Your BF and his friends should feel bad though. He pushed you... does that really mean he shoulda had the c**p beaten outta him so badly?  

Answer 4

The guy got what he deserves. I think your bf did OK... it was his buddy's who may have over reacted.

Answer 5

dont feel bad. the guy should never have pushed you. and plus if anyone would feel bad it would be the guys who hurt him, but they shouldnt feel bad either. the guy shouldnt have done it, and i would feel good to know that my boyfriend cares enough to beat the c**p out of some guy for that :)

good luck with everything, and dont feel bad about that. :)

Answer 6

If ur my gf, he would be in the mortuary.. How can he grab a gal's hip?

Answer 7

I don't think you should feel bad ... but .... your boyfriend being the foot ball player you claimed to beat up ..... don't you think you could of handled this dude? :-> lol

Seriously though .... the other guys should have stayed out of it ..... I think your guy could handle it ..... Guys getting together and beating up other guys always ends up in serious injuries particularly when high school age mix drinking and who knows what ....... but .... two guys duking it out .... hey fair play!

all the best

Answer 8

I think the situation went overboard.  You didn't do anything wrong with pushing him, he was harassing you.  And it is quite normal for your boyfriend to want to protect you.  

A single punch that would have knocked him down would have sufficed, but the beating is serious and your boyfriend and his friends could get arrested and sued.

As much as I would like to beat the c**p out of someone like that too, you have to think that worse things may happen if you do.  The law is harsh.

Other than that, it's not your fault, it was that drunk guy's fault.  So, no need to feel bad.

Answer 9

No, you shouldn't feel bad. Your friends should because he didn't deserve to be beat severely. He just needed a Punch out so he'd remember not to do it again. Your friends will be very lucky if he doesn't file charges.

Answer 10

I the guy was publicly recognized as an ***hole and he pushed MY girl, absolutely. As long as I wouldn't have to pay the medical bills.

Answer 11

No way did he overeact  that guy had no right to push you. Dont feel bad at all.

Answer 12

that guy basically sexually assaulted you

whether he deserved it or not is definitely not your fault, it was was sweet of your bf he was looking out for you

Answer 13

You cant decide if you feel bad. its a gut feeling. if you truly feel bad you'll know.

But, if someone did that to my girlfriend I would

probably kick the c**p out of them.

Answer 14

being a jerk doesn't warrant earning a concussion.  it's not like you told them to do it.

Answer 15

Your boyfriend was defending you, that is a very good thing, that means he cares a lot about you.  You shouldn't feel bad, that kid had no right to push you, being drunk or not, good for your boyfriend and his friends for kicking the kids ***.

Answer 16

It's self defense, your boyfriend cares about you. Who knows what could of happened if your boyfriend didn't step in, he could of hurt you even more.

Answer 17

I'd do that too. Yeah he overacted but how would you like seeing someone you loved pushed and hurt :P

Answer 18

well i probally wouldnt have given the guy a conconsion but i would have beat him up for doing that to my girlfriend

Answer 19

He did go a little to far but you shouldn't feel bad for something you didn't do. Your Bf took it a little to far to. he shouldn't have hurt him that bad but That other guy shouldn't have done that. So you shouldn't feel that bad unless maybe you could have stoped it before it went to far. So if anything you should fell just a little bad if anything you know?.. hope I helped!!!!

Answer 20

I don't know too much about that kind of stuff. But I don't think your boyfriend was overreacting. He was trying to protect you and you should be grateful for that. Maybe this guy didn't deserve what he got but for being somewhat irresponsible I think he learned his lesson. Everything happens for a reason.

Hope this helps!

Answer 21

i think that he  was defending you and that is honorable. but he went too far with it and his buddies should have stayed out of it.He could have handled it in a better way than what he did.

Answer 22

If he was drunk or impaired on something then he may of not known what he was doing but if he wasn't he deserved it.