Should i follow my heart or do what my friends say?

Question

There is this guy at my school and hes going to ask me out. I dont know if i like him hes a nice guy and all but i dont see him as my boyfriend. My friends think otherwise. They say i should give him a chance and just say yes. But i dont feel comfortable saying yes if i dont like him and also i dont want to lead him on like that. so what should i do?

Answer 1

i would say follow your heart if you need more time to think tell him

Answer 2

what friends think dosent matter at all compared to ur heart, if u dont like him then just say no, but be nice about it  

Answer 3

go with yor friends

Answer 4

Girl follow your heart cause your friends isn't the ones that he's going to ask out its you if u don't see him as your boyfriend then when he asks u out i suggest that you tell him that what's the right way to do then to lead him on

Answer 5

Listen to your heart. If you don't like him, don't go out with him. What will happen if you do go out with him? Do what's best for you. This happened to me before. I actually didn't know why my friends pressured me to go out w/ a guy I didn't have personal feelings for.

Answer 6

he kinda knows that yhuu duhn like him , but hes giving yhuu a chance , and yhuu should give one backk , hes seriously a nice ghuy , yhuu might end up liking him for all you know . just try , i told him if things duhn go rite.. i told him , just try kay??

Answer 7

maybe your friends told you to say yes to test you my friends did that to me already. Maybe u should follow your heart and think b4 u do things b4 something bad happens

Answer 8

If you say yes and things don't work out you might break his heart.. its not cool to play with him like that

Answer 9

whatever you do don't say yes if you don't like him! leading a person on is the meanest thing i think anyone can do! Just tell him he's a nice guy and you don't want to hurt him by leading him on so you can't go out with him! i think that's the nicest thing to do! good luck!

Answer 10

It's good to listen to friends, but do what YOU want to do. It's your decision. Not theirs. But don't be totally mean to the guy. Tell him you just want to be friends or that you don't want a boyfriend right now and maybe we can try this later.

Good Luck :]

Answer 11

I think you should trust your own instincts.  It sounds like your friends are pressuring you to go out with him, but don't.