Should i forget about this "friend" ?

Question

well we had just started our "Friendship" of which she never expressed much interest. then i got sick and traveld and came back but she NEVER bothered even phoning me or droping a line .

now she needs me and trying to be nice and even visit me ; should i 4get that she ain't bothered to even ask after me for whole year until she needs me for some job now ....

it was really hurting ...wat wud u do ?

Answer 1

I would not be rude but I would tell her that I have to move on because she is a user. She wants you to be there when she has a need, but she is not willing to be there for you. If she had been a true friend she would have kept in touch with you while you were ill. Sorry honey but you need to move on  (without her)

Answer 2

i wouldn't talk 2 that ***** anymore. but u do whatever.

Answer 3

shes fake

Answer 4

i know you may not want to but to be her friend you need to be a friend to her even though she wasn't to you. That's if you truly want to be her friend

Answer 5

h**l naw dont let her use u.....u r not some rug she can walk all over and then throw u away and come back and step on anytime she wants.....GET RID OF HER *** PRONTO....cause if you think it hurts now...when she uses u for what she needs and then she gets it...shes going to throw your *** away and then that **** is going to really hurt....im tellin you...if you think you feelin pain now...hmmm...wait till later....forget her....

YOU NEED FRIENDS THAT WILL CELEBRATE YOU...NOT TOLERATE YOU....AND REMEMBER..DONT CRY OVER NOBODY THAT WONT CRY OVER YOU....

BEST WISHES TO YOU AND DROP HER LIKE A HOT COMB ON YOUR HAND......

Answer 6

forget her, seems like she's just a using cow!

Real friends would check on you when you are sick.

Answer 7

b the better person. need i say nomore

Answer 8

if i were you i would tell her how she mitreated you. and see what she says.

Answer 9

It sounds like they are only your friend when it works for them. I say politely drop out of touch and hang out with someone else who actually cares about you.

Answer 10

There are close friend who you can trust to be with you when you need them and not so close friend who you just getalong with. You can still be friend just not close friends. If you just try not think about it you'll be find.

Answer 11

i would give her a second chance.

Answer 12

Well, since you asked what someone else would do, I would completely forget about the person. Well, this actually has happened to me and I completely forgot about the person. I still acted totally cool around them but when they wanted something I just wouldn't cave in.

Answer 13

BORING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SO STFU AND EFF HER

Answer 14

I depends if you can forgive and forget or not. I personally believe that everyone deserves a second chance. People mess up. Just the fact that you bother to post this question shows that you care, so maybe it is worth giving her a second chance. Unless it is obvious that she just needs you for this job, then she can just go **** herself.  

Answer 15

I assume she knew of your sickness but didn't bother to keep in touch.  If your friendship was not close before you were sick then I would say it wasn't really a friendship after all, just an acquaintance.  Maybe it is now she wants to get to know you and be a friend.  You will see by her words and actions if she cares for your wellbeing.  If she is genuine then give her a chance and then time will tell.  I have a dear friend who has frequent health problems but I love her just the same.  We rarely see each other but drop a line and call occasionally and she knows I will be right there by her side if she needs me.

Just another thought.  If she needs you for a job and doesn't qualify will she still stick around!

Answer 16

Just forget her. She's only your "friend" so she can get things.

Answer 17

Let's see, hmmmmm.  You have not seen this "friend" for a year and upon their return you are really hurting?

DUMP this "friend". You are better than this and deserve better. All she wants is to exploit you. Don't do it.

Put her behind you, You are over it. Go and hurt no more!

Answer 18

forget that p**o

Answer 19

Sit down with her and tell her exactly what is on your mind and hopefully she will understand.

I hope I helped you.

Answer 20

4get about her. she's trying to use you. she's not your friend.

Answer 21

dude i have no clue what you are saying