Should i forgive my dad?

Question

help!! I'm 14 and recently my dads girlfriend moved in with us her and my dad already had my brother and now they have had more kids.but me and his girl friend don't get on and she kicked me out. so now I'm living with my nan my mum died when i was 4 years old and my dad didn't really look after me properly i love my dad but it just upsets me that they blame me for everything.they wont even let me see my brother or sisters no more.my nan hates my dad now and now his friends don't hardly see him any more cause of what happened I'm sick of all the arguments.

Answer 1

I'm sorry about your mother.

try talking to your dad, but it's not his fault that you got kicked out of his house and at the end of the day you have to live with your dad try to work things out and try to get along with his girlfriend , because I'm sure it's not completely her fault that you two don't get along.

good luck.

Answer 2

your dad is choosing his gf over you

Answer 3

i know it must be hard to have a woman who is not your mother tell you what to do but in this situation you have to grow up just a little faster then you should and try to get along with his girlfriend because if you don't things will be hard all around, just pitch in around the house and try not to give anyone a hard time. There is no room in that house to allow you to be the unruly teenager that most teenagers can be, so you will have to skip that part and go on to being just a good teenager and things will go very well.

Answer 4

Yes, he is your dad.

Answer 5

honey he will always be your Dad, just let him realize how much he loves you and needs you and he does take him back. don't hold any grudges because the only person those grudges would hurt would be you