Should i forgive my sister she did the worst thing i could think she can do?

Question

i posted a question a couple weeks ago and the guy i said i hooked up with one of my sisters like but shes 12 and hes 14 and they hooked up like a year ago and i guess she still likes him but he never liked her they only kissed cause he knew he liked her and we were all playing spin the bottle at a game so it wasn't a real kiss and she found out cause my older sister and older brother told her and yesterday i went to talk to the guy she likes and talked to him and he told me that when i was going out with my ex she made out with him and i never knew that until yesterday and i felt bad but once i found that out i got really mad so i went home and ran up stair to her room and i yelled at her and we got into the HUGEST fight we have ever gotten into and she started crying and she said that never happend and i didnt believe her so i went to my ex's house and he said that it did happen and told me the whole story which was the same story that the guy my sister likes so i went to my sister and she thought i was talking about my other ex the one before that ex and she said she made out with him too so now im not talking to her but she wants me to forgive her but that made me really sad because she my sister

do you think i should forgive her or what do you think i should do?part of me wants to forgive her and most of me doesnt

pleaseeee answerr

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Answer 1

You are sisters. And sisters should always be forgiving of one another. These boys that matter so much to you now, won't mean a thing in 10 years, or even 15 years. Your sister though, will still be your family.

However, I think mom and dad need to know that their 12 year old is making out with all these different guys! They obviously need to be having a talk with her to know what's motivating her into making herself into well, a girl no good boy will want later in life.  

Answer 2

your sis is a litt hoe what guy wouldent make out with sisters. any guy that dates you is lucky. you seeing anyone now?

Answer 3

I'd forgive her so she doesn't mess with your head but i'd never trust her. Just calmly let her know that she's betrayed you and damaged your relationship. Also show her your question - if she doesn' t realise that she's hurt you enough for you to do this then there something wrong with her

Answer 4

Jeez!  I hope your head isn't as messed up as this story is!  

Answer 5

are you even speaking in english.. that was really confusing.. but anyway.. you should just forgive your sister.. the guy is probably not gonna be in either of your lives forever...

Answer 6

I don't think that it was bad that you kissed him because they both new the consequences that some had to kiss some one so I think you should explain it to her and see what she says and go from there.

Answer 7

Always forgive.  If you don't, it'll cause you more harm than the person you have a grudge against.

Next, learn to punctuate a sentence.

Answer 8

well thats pretty messed up.  i guess since ur sisters u should forgive her but i would wait a long time to actually trust her.  

Answer 9

dunno ur all too young to b in love

Answer 10

look my sister and i are very close and we have beeen through our share of fights. the thing ive learned is that no matter how bad the situation is.. its not worth throwing away a relationship with ur own sister for it. especially if it was something juvinial about an ex of urs. honestly.. really think about it... does it really seem worth it to fight over her about a guy that ur not even going out with anymore? even tho she did it while u guys were going out.. does it really matter anymore? u should forgive her

Answer 11

Thats your sister. She made a mistake. You should forgive her because before you're going to have some guy have your back in life you're going to need the support of your sister for the rest of your life espcially since you guys are so young. Family is about unconditional love even when they do ugly things, you hope that they have learned their lesson and you forgive them, because there will be a time where you'll need her forgiveness back

Answer 12

okay im really confused the storys pretty boringmand i stoped reading halfway through but u should 4give ur sis as yuor never gena have another sister and family is the strongest bond there is besides there are lot worse things ahe could have done other than steal ur boyfriend and maybe u should blame him not her still reading well well done.

Answer 13

if she did this when you were in your 20s then yes but your all just kids..you wont even be talking to these guys in 5 years time but you will be your sister.

Answer 14

She's your sister, Blood is thicker than water, Why wouldnt you be mad at the guys too? And it was in the past, She's realllly young, If she's not doing anything now, Then you have nothing to worry about, You cant be mad at her forever :]

Answer 15

ahh dont be like this. your sister seems really upset about this. get over to her and finish this mess. life is short and its gonna be much easier and better to live in friendship.

decide.

Answer 16

My god! She is your sister and these are obviously silly little boys. Dont put all the blame on your sister, the guy also had something to do with it right. I think you should both get rid of these boys and move on. You'll probably both be laughing about this in the next few years... Im serious!!!

Come on... she is your sister, what is some pathetic boy over your little sister??

Answer 17

Yes, you should forgive your sister. Even if it is the worst thing you think she could ever do she is your family and family will always be there for you no matter what you do or they do, you will always love them and they will always love you. They will always be there for you cause your family so yes i think you should forgive your sister.

=)

Answer 18

you see....life is full of twist..and you got to accept it...sooner or later you should forget whatever has happened...I mean this can be a lesson for her...everything happens for reason...it doesn't make person a bad what they do...but the result of what they do makes them bad....and you know everyone has their bad side and good side...just be positive....I know she has done big mistake...but after all she's human....and as are good human being....you should forgive her...and give her a chance...she'll love you more....she'll respect you more than she does....and you said she was crying....so it means...she's hurt by what she has done....so you better just forgive her...and live happily...remember...good things come to those who just thinks good...live happily...and make other happy....life is too short...have a good day

Answer 19

Tell her you don't know what to think of her sometimes, and then guard all your secrets from her from now on.

Answer 20

I know a lot of people said forgive her, but honestly I would only partially forgive her. What she did was wrong, not only to make out with some one elses BF but to do that to your sister is disgusting. I would not trust her for a long time, dont revenge on her but dont exactly make her life easy.  

Answer 21

Sad indeed.

Maybe you can't trust her 100% anymore for the moment .....

She's still your sister .

Tell her to give you a little more time. Time will heal the pain.

Oh well ....blood is thicker than water.

Things will be alright sooner or later.

Cheer up!

Answer 22

first of all, a little punctuation would make the whole thing a lot easy to read and to understand

i think you should forgive her, everyone makes mistakes and its a lousy kiss anyway so its not worth bothering getting into a tizz with her about.

Answer 23

what a *****...

but you gotta forgive her sometime, boys arent always around but family is

Answer 24

Yes she has been sneaky but guys come and go and sisters are forever. You need to talk to her calmly and tell her that sort of behaviour is not on. Then forgive her.

Answer 25

this is the longest sentence i have ever read.  you should forgive her

Answer 26

Guys will come and go in & outta your life. Your sis is connected to you FOR LIFE thru blood. Just don't let her meet any more of your (male) friends since she seems to have this terrible habit of repeating her mistakes.

It's dawning on me how much younger ya'll are now when "hooking up", kinda scary, at that age only ones hooking up in our house were Barbie and Ken and to this day I swear Skipper is their illegit child!!! :->

Answer 27

sisters do horrible things to each other all the time, she's your sister in the end, and all you really have is each other. Mind you she was with your Ex, that's bad. Don't get me wrong, but is a boy really worth losing a sister? Sisters are forever, boys aren't, I know that your pissed with her. But I'm sure you've done bad things to her too and she's forgiven you, admitly not as bad, but she obviously feels bad about it if she's begging you to forgive her. It's harder to forgive someone that's that close to you because you expect them to know better, but in the end then no one really knows better do they.  

Answer 28

allow that, forgive your sister. guys are guys, 2 sisters should not argue and fight because of some boys hahaha.  

Answer 29

Forgave, she is young mistakes will be made.