Should i get back with my ex?

Question

we were together for a year but we broke up because i felt like he cared more about his games than me and he kept breaking off seeing me for a month just so he could play on his games, but now hes said hes changed because he now knows how much i mean 2 him. yes we both love each other but idon'tt no if i should give him another go

Answer 1

Good question.........some people claim to change, the only thing you can do is try as time will tell.  Good luck.

Answer 2

Why not?  Go for it.

Answer 3

I would not go back with him because the very first time he does it again it will be over and you will have to start all over from square one to forget him.

Find a more mature man who can give you what you are looking for.  He may never grow up.    

Answer 4

oh my god, if it makes you happy

Answer 5

you both need to have your own interests.  he played games prior to meeting you and he will play games while he is with you and will play games even if you aren't around.  so let him play his games.

and find another hobby that you find fun.  

what kind of games?  if it's video games, you can play too!  and if it's sports, you can go cheer him on sometimes, he would probably like to have you supporting and cheering for him.

most guys have at least one other hobby that takes them away from home alot, but without that hobby, they are miserable.  so let him have fun.  at least it's games and not gambling.

Answer 6

give it another whirl. he opened up and express his feelings for you. that's a good step...cuz guys do certain things that they enjoy but when they find someone they truly like, they compromise....just be willing to compromise too.

Answer 7

Of course every guys famous quote is "baby I've changed." There is only one way to find out if that's true or not. Can your heart handle another disappointment? Or is he telling the truth? My advice to you, should you decide to give it another shot, would be take it slow. Don't open up all the way right off the bat. Date. Go out to dinner or for drinks. No over night visits in the beginning. That would be a sure way of kicking things into high gear. Have long talks and get to know this new person he claims to be.

Answer 8

Only you can decide that.  It's really not a smart move to have other people tell you how to feel, or what to do here.

This is a matter of the heart.  The heart knows what it wants.

It's up to the brain to decide if things are worth the risk involved.

Answer 9

try it again, if it starts up again warn him about it one time and if the next time happens then leave him for ever.  

Answer 10

No way, do not look back, always look ahead.

Remember, there was a reason why you broke up in the first place, do you really want to go there again, or be happy with someone who can take you to more wonderful, exciting and romantic places, and finally be a man to you that your ex never was.

Look ahead, never back!

Answer 11

No! You deserve to be with a man that won't make you compete with his gaming system for affection. You guys broke up for a VERY good reason, and I'd stick with it!