Should i get divorced?

Question

Ok so I got married at age 17 and have been with him since i was 13 now I'm 18 and I wanna go out with my friends and have fun but then again I don't want to hurt him what should I do?

Answer 1

Not to be ugly or anything but don't you think you should've thought about that before you got married. Don't get me wrong. Going out sometimes with your friends is fine but all the time, No. You have responsibilities now which includes your husband. How does he feels about that? That is one reason why parents tell their kids not to rush into marriage and having s*x. You have so much to do while you are young and don't throw it all away. Now, it is not what it is cracked up to be so you want to divorce the guy. Did you ask your husband if he mind if you hang out with your friends, sometimes? Maybe the both of you can come to some conclusion about the situation. If that is what you want to divorce over, it is so obvious that you wasn't ready to get married in the first place. Please think about your life before making such a drastic decision. Do you love him? If so, I don't need to say any more. Best of luck to you. Just remember later on in life that you can't hop into something today and change your mind tomorrow. Life doesn't work like that. I'm thirty-one year old and I"m here to tell you that marriage is not easy. It really isn't. You have to take a lil and give a lil. It is hard in and out but you really have to work at it each day. I don't know if your mom or father have told you but it is a 50, 50 working experience. I really do wish you luck. I'm not being ugly but just letting you know how it really is.

Answer 2

This is why you don't get married at 17!  It's almost guaranteed to fail because you still want to be a normal young adult but can't.

Answer 3

Kids should not let kids marry

Answer 4

you'll probably get divorced sooner or later, may as well now.  and it's all your own fault for getting married at 17.

Answer 5

i cant take this seriously b/c wen i look at your nickname i know your just trying to be funny. lol

Answer 6

divorce