Should i get help from counselor about being molested?

Question

When i was 3 yrs old my babysitters husband molested me until i was five or six. and when i was put into daycare i was molested by a girl that was 4 or 5 years older then me. During those years until i was 9 i was molested by my cousin who is only 4 years older than me. i know that most will say tell my mother but i already have and she says that i am to smart to be going to a psychiatrist and that it can mess up any job i may want in the furture. i know that i need help and i was wondering if she can help me.

Answer 1

This is for an adult counselor, not your friends. No telling how they'd react at this age.

Please seek counseling, fast. It's not your fault- the abuser is the bad person, not you.

Answer 2

Im really sorry to hear tht. if you feel you need help from a counselor then go ahead.

im sorry to hear tht

gd luck !! =)

If you want to chat feel free to email me

Answer 3

I think you really need to speak to a psychiatrist, I've just had a look at your other questions and I think you are one messed up girl.

Speak to your school counselor/trusted adult asap.

Answer 4

DUDE!!! im so sorry to hear about that. I went through similar things with my stepfather.. and yes I do think you should talk to someone about, no matter how smart you are. it messed me up, and I have not gone through as much as you. I commend you and hope that you have all the support you need. its unfortunate you had to go through all that.  

Answer 5

Get help from a psychiatrist, absolutely, as soon as possible.

KC, I just saw your other questions and you need to open up to a psychiatrist completely and truthfully. This help is long overdue, and if you don’t do this now, you will end up harming yourself even more, physically and mentally. Nothing gets better with time on its own, it only gets worse.

Try to understand based on what has happened to you, that there would be something wrong with you if you weren't hearing voices, if you weren’t having bad dreams, if you were trusting people, and your self harming is beyond understandable.

I know you're only 15, but do what you have to do, do it on your own if you have to, get into a psychiatrist’s office and open up about everything.

What your mother said? Rubbish.

Everything remains strictly confidential.

KC, you are so smart for knowing that you need help from a psychiatrist, not smart enough to not go to one. Stop listening to the rubbish other people are saying, here, and at home. Do what I’m telling you and you already know is right, this is not something for your school counsellor, friends, or family, it is for a psychiatrist.

Not a counsellor, not a psychologist, not a clinical psychologist, just a psychiatrist. Get the referral, the money, whatever it takes, kick down the door to a psychiatrists office if you have to! Whatever it is you have to do to get in, you can do it.

You're smarter and stronger than you know.

You will undoubtedly make it through.

Whatever it takes.

Answer 6

try kid help line don't know the number but it is free look it up on the internet i feel sorry for you

Answer 7

What your mother says is NOT true. You need help with this; it will not go away, and seeing a psych for dealing with it is the right way to go. It will not hurt your employment prospects. It sounds like your mother is trying to stick her head in the sand.

Go and get the help you need asap - even if you have to find it on your own.

It's YOUR future...

Answer 8

yes i was molested and raped at 8 and dident get any help  till i was 17 now i have anxity depresson and p.t.s  

Answer 9

you should start a blog, write down what happens everyday, like a journal or sumthing. yu can look back at what you wrote some years from now and conquer emotions