Should i get married i'm 13 and my fiance is 16 ?

Question

i'm 13 and my fiance is 16 we plan on getting married when i 15.i love him i know i do and i know he loves me to but all my friends think we wont last but my parents do.I'm not pregnant.HELP!!!!!

Answer 1

yeah maybe you could both go live in fairy land

and be next door neighbours with michael jackson

and then. then you could fly and live on the moon with elvis

Answer 2

i just think you are too young to be thinkin about marriage with someone you think that you love. honestly you are 13 you have no idea what love is. love takes time.

i think you are too young to be thinkin about marriage because wait till you are about 16, 17 years old an your options start exploring an then you realize HEY im not in love with this guy anyhmore an dump him or vice versa

he could as well lose feelings for you cuz when you around someone 24/7 you eventually somepoint in your life get sick of them. and think about it sweetie marriage is for good. divorce isnt cheap.

so just think about it!

Answer 3

No.

And don't do it.

Answer 4

No way, you are WAY too young.

Answer 5

You know what...I think if you can stick it out til you're 15, you might as well wait just a little longer and plan to get married when you're 18. The longer you wait, the better chance you have of the marriage working out the best. I'd wait til you graduate from high school, at least (I graduated at age 17).  You will really appreciate having finished high school on your own when you get to that point...being married takes a lot of time and energy and may impact your education.

It's hard to tell right now, but when you are 15, you will feel differently about men (boys) than you do now.....and by the time you turn 18, you will have a completely different outlook on relationships and boys.  You can still be together, but just not tied down that way.....

Answer 6

definitly not! there are alot of responsibilities that come with marriage. you are not ready. if you two really love each other you guys will still be together when you are older and get married then.good luck!

Answer 7

Oh help I feel so old !! how can kids your age commit to one another ?

Life is unpredictablel and you have so much living to do before you want to get married, my daughter is 11 and she drives me potty I could not imagine her in a relationship with a boy in two years time.

Whats going on in the world ?

Answer 8

You can't get married until you're 16. I don't even know why I'm entertaining this question. You're foolish, stupid, and naive.

Answer 9

Youre under age, you cant even lgegally get married without both sets of parents consenting. Christ.

Answer 10

You are not in love. Your hormones are just kicking in, and this little boy is not your fiance unless he has a job and money and has bought you a real diamond ring. By the way, if he is 16, he is considered and ADULT not a juvenile and so if your parents wised up they could report him to the police for being involved with a CHILD - which you are. Sorry. I remember being 13 and feeling my heart race when I was around my first "crush". That, and about 12 more little teeny-bopper thrills, each lasted about 3 months and seemed like "forever". You cannot get married when you are 15 unless you are a)pregnant, b) your parents sign court documents, or c) you are ALL more than a bit stupid. Cool your jets, little girl. Summer is almost over and you can concentrate on school. (You better not be pregnant and you better not have any reason to even THINK about getting pregnant because if you have s*x with a 16 year old, he is going to JAIL!!)

Answer 11

you can't get married at 15.  Even if your parents sign off on it you have to be 16. (and they will have to litterally sign something saying it's okay with them).

Good luck!

Answer 12

your bf is hust saying that to get a piece of your @$$

Answer 13

first of all. YOU DON'T HAVE A FIANCE.

second. YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT LOVE YET.

Answer 14

  Get an education then get married.

Answer 15

NO you should not get married at 13 you shouldn't even think about getting married at thirteen and you shouldn't have a fiance at 13.

And your parents are either crazy or high

Answer 16

Seriously, are we actually answering this question?  Of course you shouldn't get married.  You can't even begin to understand the feelings and responsibility involved in getting married.  How will you support yourselves???  Honey, marriage is an adult decision, stick to deciding what to watch on tv, Gossip Girl or 90210.

Answer 17

your parents are going to let you get married when you are fifteen!!!!! OMG

Answer 18

Don't get married at 15, just don't.

Answer 19

In CA, it is considered child abuse for a 16 year old to be with anyone younger than 14.

I think you should think about school and a career and not getting married.

You are young and it wouldn't surprise me if you had about 3-4 more serious boyfriends by the time you get married.

Good luck.

Answer 20

Please DON'T!!!  If you love each other you can wait!  You need to get more than a high school education to survive in this world, so do that before you get married.  Adult life is not always easy and you have absolutely no idea what it's like to work to support yourself and pay bills and actually have responsibility!

Prove to your friends and family you can last!  However, you don't have to get married to prove that!  Good luck and make a good decision!

Answer 21

It is ridiculous to get married when you are 15 years old, yet not unheard of. If you really love this guy and he loves you then time won't matter. You both need to get a good education and get your lives in order before you make such a big step. If you plan on having a family, then you really need to think about how you are going to provide for them and each other. Things change over time. Give yourself some time to have a life before committing yourself.