Should i get married or stay single ? each life style has its own advantages and disadvantages. Like being ?

Question

single you will fell alone at times but meanwhile you don't have much responsibility toward someone else. Meanwhile getting married, if it is a successful marriage can be good (i guess so !)

so how would you compare these two ? any suggestions or comments

Answer 1

Since you're a guy, getting married for you means always being certain you'll have someone to have s*x with on a regular basis (if you're lucky).

Being married means you've always got someone to wash your dirty laundry (and your dishes AND scrub the bathtub when you're done).

Being married means knowing you'll have someone to blame if you s***w up (yes, even if it's your fault, you can blame her).

Being married means wondering where the h**l all the money goes (it's always her buying shoes, not you buying guy toys).

For me (a girl), I absolutely refuse to clean up after anyone, which is one of main reasons I never want to be married (I'm 50 now by the way, so that will never change).

I refuse to cook for anyone else.

I refuse to take the blame for the blown budget.

I refuse to sleep with you just because we're married and you may feel it's my "wifely duty".

I came close to getting married at least twice, but came to my senses before it was too late. For one thing, even if I had gone through with it, I'd be divorced by now anyway, so I just saved myself the aggravation.

Single is the perfect lifestyle. Even after a guy stays over, I can kick him out the next morning -- "you don't have to go home, but you can't stay here."

Answer 2

Have you found someone that you are considering marrying?  Getting married just to avoid being alone may be worse than being along.  Give this issue careful consideration.

Answer 3

That decision should always be made with a lot of consideration. Marriage is right for a lot of people, but there are some that can't deal with commitment, or like you said the responsibility. Do you want to have a family? Children, wife, home, family dog? If that's never appealed to you then stay single, if it does, you might want to look for the right woman!

Answer 4

i think that if you find the right woman you wont have a question... so IMO i think that you should stay single until then! good luck!

Answer 5

You should do what you feel.