Should i give in or stand firm

Question

My new husband keeps asking me to take out a life insurance policy in case i ever had an 'accident'

judging by his track record, would this be a terrible mistake or should i just trust him and give in?

Answer 1

Hard to answer your question as you refer to his 'track record' without saying what it is, but I will say this:

If you trust him as little as you seem to, you should not be married to him and quite honestly, your marriage is doomed without some action pretty soon.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

No, hide away your money from him. Meanwhile, ask him to cash out his IRA, 401K, ... to contribute your daily expense, vacation, .... to find out what his response is.

Answer 3

It's a good idea for both parties to have life insurance. I'm sure he's not about to bump you off, just forward planning.

Answer 4

*ghostly woo-woo noise*

Listen honey you marry for money you earn every penny.

Besides it was Faith wot did it.

Answer 5

What do you mean by his track record? that is worrying, maybe if you get one together. Tell him you need to think about it first.

Answer 6

Not knowing his "track record", it is a tough call.  You are afraid of him, you need counseling and perhaps protection, not a policy.

Answer 7

If he is already your husband, then you must trust him already or you never would have married him.

Answer 8

Please don't blame him for what you call "his track record"...

Hes an innocent little gander who loves all his wives deeply.

It was all my fault...promise i won't say "boo!" to you...

Answer 9

is he planning to let you have a accident?

Answer 10

WOOOOOOOOOOOH,WOOOOH!

Faith....

...I'm Coming for you Faith..

Mrs GC you were wise to get out when you did.

Ed>MrsPG 1.0 i thought i was the first! typical PG lying b*****d! lol x

Answer 11

You do not mention what his 'track record' is...you imply that he knocks off his spouses for insurance money. Knowing that, why in the name of Lloyds, did you marry the man? You might inquire as to why he so urgently needs you to do this, and explain to him that you will take care of it yourself. You can do this, but you do not have to involve him, and he never needs to know that you have a death policy. It would serve him right.

Most of us, if employed, have some sort of basic insurance policy that covers the minimal expenses of our funeral. That should be enough for hubby.

Or, call his bluff and say that you will be happy to get life insurance as soon as he signs a waiver stating that he inherits nothing from you, in the case of your accidental death.  

Answer 12

his track record?

is Mr PG a professional wife killer or something?

Answer 13

Tell him you will get one when he does.  

Answer 14

well atleast he is planning for your futures,peAce.or his,never give in,tell him there must be a better way.

Answer 15

I don't know his track record so it is impossible to advise you .

Answer 16

* even more scary woo woo noises*

So do I detect a history with Mrs GC the very woman whose huskies he fed my poor lifeless body to?

I'm after her as well as Faith now.

Answer 17

Tell him if he keeps putting pressure on you "he" will be the one having an accident

Answer 18

Depends....have you come across any brochures for world cruises? lol

Answer 19

I would suggest you take out a joint policy. You can never have too much insurance.

Go and see an advisor you can get all sorts of policys now that dont have to be a life insurance policy but a income protection policy etc

Just make sure you take out more on him than he takes for you lol