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Should i give up on him and just forget him altogether?

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ok, there comes a time when a girl has to make a decision. ive been on about this guy i work with for ages. To be honest I'm starting to sound like uncle albert.lol. This guy fancies me, and he made it clear, and he knows i fancy him but he wont come to talk to me so that pisses me off. Infact, i overheard a conversation between him and his mate saying that he just won't talk to me. That i should go and talk to him. Quite frankly, ive never approached a guy, ever, to let him know that i fancy him. Not that i can't but thats the way its got to be with me. So I'm not about to do so now. He won't step up either. I'm just being put off by all this. Instead hes going round telling people that i won't even lift my head up when hes looking at me but that's just because I'm busy and I'm shy. It NOT like I'm not interested! Hes telling them that it's just one way, (that I'm the only one interested and hes not), and hes only being nice. how can someone being nice give you the impression that they are interested in you when they are not? I sure know the signs and besides he told many people that he is interested in me. And that just PUTS ME OFF! Don't get me wrong i really like this guy despite the c**p he coming up with BUT i think he lacks a lot of confidence in asking me out. Its not like i dont know he fancies me, so im obviously not going to be too hard him. i mean come on, im not going to push him away when i want him to come closer to me am i really? my patience is running out. i mean if he is simply not interested then WHY cant he just tell me straight up? Im getting fed up so , should i give up on him and just forget him altogether or should i give him time? Am i just impatient?

:( :( :( Any ideas?

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  1. lol@uncle albert comment

    Anyway i would give up, he knows you like him and hes already said that he doesnt like you ( hope i read that right) plenty more fish in the sea , and to be honest this guy sounds like a bit of a jerk.


  2. You should just ask him straight up,if you dont ask you will never know!

    And if after you have asked him your still confused and dont know how he feels then forget about him cos if he really likes you that much he would do something about it whether he is shy or not.

    Good Luck!

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