Should i give up on love or keep trying? been married twice. my first husband was a great man and a good ?

Question

provider but i wasnt in love with him. we both decided to get a divorce. my husband now soon to be divorced cheated on me while i was pregnant and gave me hpv. i cant seem to get it right. how do you keep moving forward after 2 failed marriages?

Answer 1

How about staying single for a while.

Answer 2

Maybe you should of got it right the first two times!

Answer 3

You forget the fairy tale that love always lasts 'til death and you realize that the choices we make help us become the people we are. Why give up on love? Why need there be a finite number of times we fall in love? Yeah, it hurts when it ends or when our loved one does something painful to us, but considering how people grow and change over time it really is amazing to see those relationships that last for many decades. They are the exception, not the rule.

I've also been married twice...I don't care if I don't marry again, but would love to have someone to share Life with. I date on occasion and am involved now with a man that rocks my world. Chances are we won't be together long term, but who knows? I enjoy it for what it is, and the time we are together, and let Life take us forward to see what it holds...

To me, I'd rather take the chance on love and have the hope of experiencing it again, than to withdraw from it because past situations didn't work out...things that have a beginning, typically have an ending. The thing to do is learn from the experience, and move forward to find more wonderful experiences. ☺♥☻

Answer 4

I was married twice  myself now single and loving it . I found out that being single with kids isn,t all that bad . In fact  its allot better then being married and unhappy . Once you get your act together its like the old day before you even thought about marriage . You actually have time to think about yourself and do what you wish to do without someone nagging constantly.  

Answer 5

Well if you took your first marriage seriously and didnt fall out of love you wouldnt be in this position would you?  Dont give up on love it will come

Answer 6

stop looking for love let it fine you and things will be alright.

Answer 7

i know right where you are comming from. after my second marriage failed, i did not so much as go out on a date for 9 years. then my soulmate fell into my life, and i have never been happier. don't rule it out, but don't make it a priority either. concentrate on being the best you can be, don't let anyone tell you that you are not complete without a man.  

Answer 8

Do not beat yourself up! You were honest with your first husband, often we make the wrong decisions in life. It is not your fault you were cheated on, good riddance to that one!  Of course you should keep looking!  Don't go for second best either, just because of the past.

Answer 9

Don't go looking for it because then you will most likely find another looser.  Just get out of the second marriage and take your time to give your heart time to heal.  Just because two men came to you that were not right for you doesn't mean you won't find a good man.  I assume from the question and info given that you are still young.  You have a lot of time and chances ahead of you.  Good luck.

Answer 10

their is some one for every one don't give up just take It slow good luck

Answer 11

You first need to heal yourself before you start another relationship.  You need to be happy with yourself before you can commit to another.

Linda

Answer 12

Don't give up. Don't count on it. But do work hard on being able to be happy if it never happens or if it does. Three years work, if you're typical.  

Answer 13

Well the first one was because you can't keep your vows and didn't take them seriously.  The second marriage you had no control over and did nothing wrong.  I don't think anyone should give up on love.  It is a basic human need.