Should i give up on my boyfriend?

Question

i dont trust my boyfriend wat so ever,all he does is let me down!he says he loves me and will do anything for me,should i take his word,or leave him?

Answer 1

a relationship is built on trust and communication. if one is lacking your whole foundation is done for. so i think you need to move on and find someone who can really stick to the foundation. a real man.

Answer 2

yes

Answer 3

If you dont Trust Him then you need to tell him that and why because he will probably ask why.

Then tell him he needs to earn your trust back.

If he awalys lets you down then you might as well break up with him. And he should of saw it coming, relationships are trial and error these days, sometimes they work sometimes they don't.

Answer 4

Trust is extremely important in a relationship.  If there is no trust with him, then he isn't worth keeping  He will only cause you pain and suffering.  

Answer 5

Always go with your gut.  Instict is there for a reason, don't ignore it.  If you don't trust him, leave him.  Don't stay with him out of fear of being lonely.

Answer 6

if theres no trust to build in the relationship, then ther is no relationship :)

so yes, give yourself a break.

stay single until you find him .

Answer 7

You really should give more precise information on what exactly he does.  Any examples of this sort of behavior?

Answer 8

Unless he has given you a reason for that distrust, you don't deserve him.

Answer 9

A person's word is only as good as his actions.  

Answer 10

In what ways does he let you down?  Has he proven to be untrustworthy?  If he isnt doing something that you like there is nothing wrong with having a heart to heart, and explain why this or that makes u upset.   You have to have trust in a relationship or it wont work.

If, after you talk to him, he doesnt do anything to change it, then maybe think about moving on, but I wouldnt leave him until you talk. Give him a chance first to right the wrong, whatever it is.  

Answer 11

Trust is the walls of a house in a relationship. Depending of if he has given you a reason not to trust him or not you need to break up with him. If the trust isn't there it's too difficult to find it.

Answer 12

leave him. trust isn't automatic. it's earned. you're a fool if you trust an untrustworthy person

Answer 13

leave him,

if he lets you down you definately don't need him.

Answer 14

He can lie about words, but his actions show what he truly feels. If he always lets you down, it's probably time to let him down.

Answer 15

Yes. If you can't trust him then there is nothing you can do.  

Answer 16

He isnt worth what your suffering. Move on and find somone who doesnt let you down and who you can trust. How can he do anything for you if he lets you down? If you dont do it soon you might get wrapped around his little finger and end up doing anything for him which will get you hurt- love is a powerful thing but just end things and ask if you can still be friends

good luck

x x

Answer 17

That is up to you and only you ...

Answer 18

maybe you should as most of a relationship is based on trust...

Answer 19

leave him theres no trust or respect in the relationship!

Answer 20

Just give up on him if he lets you down all the time there is no reson to keep going out because you want a relationship were you can be true to each other and not be let down so give up and move on when you have a relationship were you bo loves you and your not being let down then your ok........

Answer 21

If he lets you down then there's nothing else to think about. At the end of the day what you're looking for is someone who's there for you. He may buy you diamonds from Tiffany, Jimmy Choo shoes and a Dior dress but if he's not there for you, you shouldn't be with him.

But having said that, don't just read people's replies here and go ahead and break up with him. Talk to him. Tell him you've had a enough and you're tired of being let down. If he really wants to make this work then he has to step up and be there for you. And the next time you feel he isn't this is over. Please tell him you're contemplating leaving him.

Maybe that'll make him realize the gravity of the situation. And if he still doesn't measure up, maybe he's not the guy you're supposed to be with.  

Answer 22

A give him a chance no ones perfect.

Answer 23

Well, if he always lets you down, and you don't trust him, then you must leave him.

Answer 24

trust is the foundation of a beautiful relationship...i think you should leave him, or at least try to rebuild the relationship.