Should i go against my family?

Question

im going out with a turkish guy we want to get married but the thing is my family completely rule my life they tell me what to do all the time, i have a daughter (her father left me) and they totally take over they make decisions relating to her, they tell me all the mistakes i make in my life, they forced my to go to college when i didnt want to and generally they make me real bad about my self all the time. they have no idea iam in a relationship but i need to tell them as now my boyfriend and i want to get married and live together but they will go so mental i know they will do everything to keep me away from him but the thing is i do think he can make me happy, he treats me well and accepts my daughter as his own.

should i go for what i want and go against my family for my own happiness??

Answer 1

Actually I gave you the answer already in your other questions...

I "CLEARLY" understand the type of your boyfriend...

He is a macho man. Believe me his behaviours are typical...

If I have to be honest I have a Russian fiancee and sometimes I am warning her about her dress...

I love her very much that's why I will move to south west of Turkey. Because I want her to wear what ever she wants to...

(Bodrum - Ortakent)

Anyway...

He will make your life "100% limited" you will be free "in his kingdom" than you will fedup but he will never let you divorce and when you open this subject he will be very rude and angry...

I am not exaggeratig my dear Irish friend... Believe me he will be!

He is a supporter of MHP...He is a "kind of" partiot...

He does...He limits you and makes you house wife.

You can live your freedom at home... You start to get permission from him when you want to go shopping...Or he send you shopping with one of his friend...

You found a Turkish guy type which is "Uneducated, countryman type partiot Turkish man"...Who learned english in touristic places...

I really want to help you... I wish I could see his picture :(

Does he has facebook??

Regards,

...

Answer 2

This is your life Not theres.You need to be Happy and your Daughter also.If this is what you want go for it,Go to the justice of the Peace and get married and then come home tom your parents house house and move out.Good Luck.

Answer 3

OK...DR. LUV SAYS:

There is obviously a lot of miscommunication going on here... Your parents love you very much and they are only doing what they think is best for you. Now that i've gotten that out of the way, they need to realize that you are a grown individual. The choices and decisions of your life are yours and until you are married yours alone. There comes a time when you have to stop trying to please mommy and daddy... Late at night, when the world is at rest, you are the one in your bed lonley not your parents. You have to do what makes YOU happy regardless of what others may think or say, including your family members. Sometimes family can be harder on you than strangers on the street. Keep this in your mind, as long as you LOVE this guy, there is nothing in the world that can stop you from marrying him. You just have to make that decision, but also realize that love isnt easy and there is a HUGH difference between he treats me well, and he loves me. And dont think of it as going against your family, but going with your heart...(I should be getting paid for this S***)  

Answer 4

Well, you can ask this advice at Jamrie.com

People on the website, should be able to help you out.

I go on it all the time!

Answer 5

yeah someone should always do what makes them happy and soon your family will realize that this makes you happy and they will learn to accept it.

Answer 6

You most definitely should. But you need to be absolutely, positively sure that this man is well worth it. Because the last thing you'll wanna do after you choose to pick this man over your family is to go crying back to your family that this man left you. You have to show your family that not only can you make decisions on your own, but you can live a better life than you did when you lived under their roof.