Should i go back in the army now that i am married?

Question

Should i go back in the army now that i am married?

Answer 1

Foreign Legion mate.

Answer 2

You need to talk that over with your wife.  

Answer 3

Why do you want to leave her? Is it the benefits? Is she signing up too? What does she say?

Answer 4

This is an issue you need to discuss with your wife, not a bunch of strangers.  But I will say the free health care, is a h**l of a perk.

Answer 5

This is a decision you need to make with your wife.  If it really means a lot to you to reenlist then express this to her.  However, if she will be really miserable as an army wife, and there is something else you are good at or would like to do then consider making the change.  She knew you were in the army, did you ever discuss this?  Did she think you would be getting out for good?  Or you might be in one more tour of duty?  All these things matter.  Plan your lives together.  I am sure together you can come up with a decision that you both feel good about and will meet both your expectations of a happy future together..

Answer 6

you need to sit with her and ask what she thinks on it.  In the end it is your decision to make, but that doesn't mean she has to go with you.