Should i go into a past fling?

Question

almost 2 years ago me and a friend of mine were sort of a thing..for just a month...it was sort of my first real thing...it didn't end good. it was like an unfinished business sort of thing, because i never really knew why it ended, he blamed it on a stupidity. Since then he's had 2 girlfriends. Now the thing is that i've been thinking of him and i don't know why i thought i was over him..but suddenly i'm thinking of him and i even feel the need to talk to him..about " us" or whatever. Sometimes i think i'm crazy and then i think what's the harm?

I haven't seen him since....june maybe? It was just a nice out like that with friends. HELP! what should i do? if it helps i haven't been with anyone since then, mostly because i don't like the people who are interested in me and guys tend do like me and then change their minds.....

Answer 1

If he's single, see him. But don't talk about "us". It's just going to cause the same problems if you do. Inside, you know what happened and why it didn't work out. It's usually not a big mystery. You don't have to bring up the past with him, tell yourself it's a new day.