Should i go or not? :\?

Question

this girl wants me to go hang out with her and this guy tomorrow, i've hung with them a few times before

but the guy doesn't seem to like me..

i don't really like being there because all they do is flirt.. it's kind of annoying because i get left out..

the guy doesn't seem to like me.. like he's never said it, but when i'm there he gives me strange looks all the time, and kinda ignores me.. or when we do talk it's only so he can prove me wrong.. :\

my friend says that she doesn't think he doesn't like me, but it feels like it :\

my friend is begging me to go and i really don't want to go, but i feel kinda bad blowing her off..

what would you do!? :\

Answer 1

i wouldnt go.

just let her know that u feel really uncomfortable going if shes a true friend she'll understand

Answer 2

Your friend obviously likes this guy and its important to her that the two of you get along or she feels the need for you to approve of this guy, but you still don't have to go just explain to her that you don't have a problem with the guy but he's not the one who invites you so he probably gets annoyed because you are there.  

Answer 3

If you really don't want to go then you should just tell the girl that you can't hang out. Ask her if she wants to hang out another day, so that way you aren't really blowing her off. If it won't hurt her feelings, then just tell her the truth that you just don't feel comfortable going with the both of them. You shouldn't feel bad about not wanting to go if you feel like the guy doesn't like you. I think she will understand.  

Answer 4

Ask your friend why do she continue to ask you to be there with her and her date?  It's either one or two things: She's using you as a cover or she's trying to make sure his flirting doesn't goes any further. He may not like you because you are there and he want things to go even further between himself and your friend. Tell your friend to stop putting you in a position that you're not comfortable with and if she continues to do so, you will no longer hang out with her when she's with him in that manner.

Answer 5

hang out witht hem anyways i mean how often do you get to hang out with your best friend AND a guy, if they really leave you out again call them on it and just walk away to make them feel bad

Answer 6

Tell her you feel uncomfortable around the two of them and feel like a spare part

Or you could suggest to ask another friend along too so you dont fell left out, that way your not letting your friend down but also solving your problem