Should i go or not go the the reception?

Question

my sisters daughter is getting married next month its gonne be out of state . but when they return home they will have a reception a week later. well i dont wanna go to the reception because me nad my sister got in to a fight about 4 months ago.i wont be able to make it to the bridal shower because i wont be in town witch is next week. i dont think i should have to go if i dont want. but i dont know what to do.my b/f says that i should go because i would want them to come to mine.

Answer 1

go  take  a little  vacation  and  enjoy  yourself

Answer 2

Mend Fences!! Family is important.  Go and have fun.  xox

Answer 3

This is your niece and she obviously would love her aunt there.  I know I would.  Please don't ruin her day.  Be supportive to her.  Your fight with your sister shouldn't interfere with your relationship with your niece.  Please go to whatever you can attend and have a good time.  Life is to short!

Answer 4

How old are you?

Just go, that is what adults do.  It is for your Niece go for her.

Answer 5

This is your niece not your sister!  Because you and your sister had a fight why should you pick on your niece.  If your niece invited you she must respect you; so respect her back and do the right thing. If you cannot make the shower than explain it to your niece so there will not be any hard feelings.  Another thing ask yourself what you and your sister fought about and was it a necessary fight. Life is too short to be fighting I know I lost my sibling at the age of 56 and my husband lost his sibling at the age of 50. There deaths were 9 months apart. It was one of the hardest things we had to go through. Some advice make up with your sister.  

Answer 6

Don't take out your issues with your sister on your niece.

Answer 7

what ever happened between you and your sister you will get over, and besides this is your niece and you will regret it if you're not there, just put yourself in her shoes you would want your family there right?

Answer 8

Are you going to the wedding? If not, then you definitely should go to the reception. If it was just a fight with your sister, you really should just suck it up and go anyway. This is about her daughter, not you and your sister.

Answer 9

If you were invited by your niece, then go for your niece.  Your sister has nothing to do with it.  

Answer 10

Do you want a niece that likes you? It isn't about your sister. It's about your niece. I would go if you were invited. It seems the reception is for people who couldn't travel so far. This means you. Let her have her family there if your close. If your not close, then it doesn't really matter.  

Answer 11

i think you should go it will show your sister that you care about here daughter and later on you will be close again and you will regret you didn't go.i know someone that had the same issue but since she went the talked it over and got over it!!!good luck..or maybe you should talk to your sister about the situation before the wedding.