Should i go or not i need advise?

Question

well this is what happened yesterday at work well i started my new job i had some problems so this man flin helped me i took him out for a coffee after our shift as we left we hugged and as i got in the car he snogged me i pulled away and told him i am married i have a daughter with someone else and a son and have one on the way with my current man he said sorry which i accepted then today i was at my other job where i am a hair dresser and beautician and all of a sudden one of the workers gave me a bunch of flowers she said a man called flin wanted me to give them to you i was so shocked but a little while ago he texted me and said want to go out for a coffee tomorrow should i go and wat should i say !!!!!! please answer i need advise

Answer 1

no your married. why do you need advise? pretty simple

Answer 2

I would say no because he just keep doing want he doing to you. You are married and I know I wouldn't do it.

Answer 3

You can go to tell him to stop making moves at you because you are taken and even pregnant, but I'd rather not go. He'll get the hint.

Answer 4

Umm,I wouldn't go.Don't get anything started, you know what I mean?You told him that you were married,so he should get the picture that the two of you can't be nothing more.Coffee tomorrow,will lead to coffee everyday,which will lead to getting feelings involved,which will lead to something messy.Don't go through with this.If you go,you will be giving him mixed signals,like you want to be involved with him.

Answer 5

I would text him what you said.

maybe he just is trying to apologize for the other day.

Answer 6

Just say no...this is the type of guy who believe no just means not at the moment and eventually means yes.  If you go it will just reinforce to him that you eventually will say yes.