Should i go to say "hi" to him?

Question

I was close friends until we got physical. We didn't have s*x but we just fooled around. It was a mistake and I felt guilty about it.

However he never called me after that and it seemed like he was distancing himself from me. I was devastated and hurt. I understand because he is married and he was doing the right thing. I cried my eyes. I knew it was for the best.

Unfortunately I still miss our friendship. Tomorrow I am going in the west end of the city to visit my aunt so I was thinking to take one of his busses that he drives to just say hi and tell him how much I missed our friendship. He is a bus driver and I know his schedule.

So should I just go to say hi since I haven’t spoken to him in 1 month?

Answer 1

I wouldn't try to talk to him. You just said it was for te best, so leave it alone. Just move on and don't dwell in the past.

Answer 2

Why? just leave it alone. he's married and you are putting him in a bad situation. you know he is attracted to you so leave this situation alone before it becomes mess.G/L  

Answer 3

Don't throw yourself under the bus, NO he's married, leave him alone before it turns it to something worse, hop on the bus gus and find a SINGLE guy before it turns into a nightmare relationship, you as a woman and a person deserve better!  Find another bus stop and the right one will come along, he's no friend sister, he's a guy thinking with his little head instead of his big one and trying to involve you in a triangle.  Don't be stupid and hate yourself in the long run, he belongs to someone else-his wife.