Should i hangout with the dorks or pretty people?

Question

now i understand this questions sounds extremely rude. i want you to know i honestly dont mean anything by it, i judge people from the heart. but listen, and tell me what you think.

i started a new school, its been 3 days, and for the first 2 days i kinda hung out with the more attractive people. you see, at my school it seems like theres TWO GROUPS. and no offense, but one group is a bunch of pretty girls, and one is a bunch of not so pretty ones. it was kinda hard for me to make friends at first with the "pretties", its not that they're mean, a few of them are very nice to me. but today i sat with the "uglies" haha, sorry!! and they are just 10 times nicer!

tomorrow, which group do you think i should hangout with? i guess the answers obvious. i just, feel like the "uglies" are kind of considered losers at the school, they seems like total dorks, nice ones though! i just dont wanna be classified as that. and its not that the pretties are mean, they're not. just not as nice as the uglies.

i dont know if this makes any sense at all, and i dont it sounds really really mean please dont take it the wrong way!! but if anyone understands what im trying to say, please help me.

thank youu:)

Answer 1

I say hang out with the dorks of the school. Not becasue they are nice but you can find alot of thigns from them that you cant find from the "pretties" and plus if oyu have trouble with anyhting like you r car or homewrok the "uglies" will help you more times then the otehr group will.

Answer 2

Pretties it will make life much easier.  

Answer 3

Be friends with who you want to be. Does it really matter what they look like? You can be friends with some people from one group and some people from the other group. Mingle. You might even start making some really close friends. I know you don't mean to be rude, but don't go living your life choosing between "pretty" or "ugly". Because you'll learn there's way more important things.

Just be friends with people you trust and feel comfortable around, regardless of what they look like! =]  

Answer 4

If I were you, I would hang out with the pretties. I don't hate the uglies, but there are some of those at my school and they are probably worse than yours.

Answer 5

I have the same problem . . . the more 'popular' girls are nice but not as nice as the 'unpopular' girls. I've have found that the 'popular' girls, as nice as they can be, aren't worth my time. All they seem to do is back-stab each other, they don't seem to know how to be real friends to one another. I'm not saying this to be mean or anything, and I don't want to offend anyone, this just happens to be my point of view.

In your situation I would say to hang-out with the 'uglies', as you called them, if the 'pretties' like you they won't judge you and they would/should still talk to you . . . that's what happened in my case any way, I befriended the 'unpopular' girls but I still talk to the 'popular' girls and hang-out with them occasionally. So just be yourself and do what your heart tells . . . if you feel more comfortable around the 'uglies' then hang-out with them. Forget what everyone else labels you. If you feel more comfortable around the 'pretties' hang-out with them . . . you can still talk to the 'pretties' or the 'uglies', depending on who you chose to hang-out with, and hang-out with them occasionally.

Hopefully this helps and isn't to confusing . . .      

  

Answer 6

Honestly, I was in your situation a few years ago when I started high school. I started hanging out with a group of really funny and sweet girls (though not the prettiest). Then a couple of days later, a few pretty and popular girls came up to me and told me that I should be hanging with them because I was pretty too and that I should ditch the other girls. I chose the "dorks" in the end because I was way more comfortable with them. A couple of them are still my best friends and it's 4 years later. Also, you could tell that we ended up  having way more fun than the popular girls did. But do whatever you think feels right. I'm not here to judge you. Just a little advice. Good luck! =]

Answer 7

well i was in the same situation as you..

but then i was like i can hang with whoever i wanna..

just take turns hanging around each of them..

but if you don't wanna then you can hang with the nice "pretties"

but why bother hang around someone who is rude?

but you can tell the "pretties" that are rude to stop and if they don't wanna listen, then it's your choice to hang with whoever you wanna..

hope this helps.