Should i hate my mom 4 this?

Question

it seems like she doesnt care about my 2 bros sister or me she never sees us and she always lies i miss her but she makes me cry and sometimes i get mad at her.

should i hate her or not. im only 12

Answer 1

yea u should

Answer 2

not really hate...cuz she is your mom...and the fact tht you said tht u miss her is you showing that you still love her, and hating her wont be all that easy...so no

Answer 3

I don't think that you should hate your mom because it doesn't matter what you think of her she's still your mom. If you feel that way about her then you should sit her down and try to talk to her and let her know that she hurts your feelings to the point where you cry. You might think that your mother doesn't care about you but she does care about you. My father use to tell me and my brother lies when I was younger but as I got older I realized that it wasn't really that big of a deal, I just wanted more attention then the attention that he was giving us. As all of that was going on I still loved my daddy because without him I wouldn't be here.

Answer 4

im sure she loves you, its probably just a very hard time in her life. talk to her about it. don't hate her

Answer 5

maybe she hates herself for what she has done to you kids ??

leave her a message  or talk to her and tell her this can be worked out,, lets just talk ....................when you do speak with her ,be nice not angry or hateful tell her you hurt as she does !!! this may be the start  the both of you need !

Answer 6

yea that is really mean for a mom to be that mean to her own kids sorry :[

Answer 7

no, you shoulnt.

You are only 12. 12 year olds have it kinda hard. i knew.

talk to her. i hope she comes around.

best wishes.

Answer 8

you should call steve wilkos. Check him out on youtube. He can help you out

Answer 9

No you shouldn't hate your mom. I sue to have my mom, and now I regret it. you will regret hating your mom for the rest of your life, so only hate her if you wnat to live wiht regret.

Answer 10

umm well i havent seen my dad since the day i was born, he has 5 other kids in mexico, doesnt call on my birthday,christmas, or any holiday, ive only talked to him over the phone about 3 or 4 times, umm i havent seen any resent pictures, so you have it a little easier

Answer 11

I was 12 when I first started here but I used to say I was 13 in case I got deleted. I am now 13 though.

I know that feeling too. I don't see my Mum often and she doesn't seem to care. She didn't come yet again to my end of term play. But I don't think hating is ever right. Try and love her because she probably needs it.

Answer 12

No you should not hate ur mom....well depending on the reason why she is not around I am not sure exactly why shes not there and doesnt seem to care about you and you siblings...but My dad is like that he is never around and always says how much he misses me but never acts on it and no matter how much I want to Hate him i just can't he is my dad so what i would say is allow yourself to strongly dislike her hate is a very strong work after all you would not be here if it weren't for her. Try talking to her and telling here how you feel it will make you feel a little better.

hope this helps

Answer 13

No you shouldn't hate her, just try to love her because you would hate yourself for hating her in the long run, and if you hated her and she tried to get better you would feel really mad, you dont want to do mad at somebody so just love her that's all you can do and I hope that things get better for you

Answer 14

Everyone here telling you that you should hate her is also 12 years old or very immature. You'll appreciate the fact that she's been working to feed you and your good-for-nothing siblings instead of dressing you and attending baseball practice with you when you get older. Unless, of course, you WANT to live in a box.

Answer 15

No, you shouldn't. Hating a parental is a horrible thing. Trust me, there are somethings you don't understand and some events that maybe going on in your mom's life that make her act like that.

Answer 16

if she lies and doesnt want to see you then yes