Should i have a kid at age of 15 if my boyfriend is going to take care of it?

Question

my boyfriend want to have a kid but i dont cas i wana finish school nd i dunt think im ready to b a mom even thou my boyfriend promissed me to take care of me and the baby ii trust him because he is really insisting in haven one i tell him to give me time to think bout it and he did but im stil confused

Answer 1

You've answered your own question. You don't think you're ready to be a mom and you want to finish school. Do that first. What happens if/when you break up with your boyfriend and you're left taking care of the baby? Don't give in to the pressure for your boyfriend. Actually, maybe you should slow things down with him... perhaps even take a break and figure things out for yourself first.  

Answer 2

I hear that your body will NEVER be the same once you get pregnant. Just be super sure

Answer 3

OH MY GOD!!!  NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NOOOOOO

Talk to any adult that you trust very much, I bet you anything in the world she or he would say do not do it.

No matter how much you think you love you`re boyfriend you need to follow you`re instinct, it`s already telling you not to do it, a baby it`s a big responsibility, I was a teen when I had my daughter I was 18 and i still wish I could had waited till this day, I`m 35 now, please do not do it. you will remember later in your life this stage of your life and think very different from now.

again NO!!!

Answer 4

you need school, your grammar if awful.

do not have a child because it 15 you are too young to have a child. how is your boyfriend planning on supporting you and a child during such difficult economic times? it is one thing to promise to take care of you, and its another to actually follow through. i really do not want to sound rude and i do not want you to take offense to this but..is you boyfriend intelligent? because it does not sound like it. at 15 he is not going to be able to get a job during times like these. it is tough enough as an adult. as we look towards the future a high school diploma is not going to be enough, you need college. if you don't think you are ready for a child that is a huge sign right there not to go ahead with this. you are not ready. do not become another statistic. is that what you had planned for your life?  

Answer 5

Don't do it, you are only 15, finish school & wait til your married. Your education comes first. Tell him you want to wait & if he can't come to terms with that, tell him you want to take some time out of the relationship, maybe he will realize that if he really wants to be with you then he needs to respect your wishes. Best of Luck to you!!!

Answer 6

dont .

youre too young.. how will you support a baby at 15.

its ttooo much to handle.

u should wait until youre maried b4 u have a kid.

if u want to do it with him fine but dont have a child yet

Answer 7

Flat out no!

Its your body! you can do whatever you wanna do to it!

Follow your heart, but use your brains.

What if he leaves? who's gonna take care of the kid then??? huh!

Talk things over with him. Maybe you guys should wait, like see if the relationship is strong enough to add a kid to it.

At least finish college. So no matter what happen after the kid comes into the world. You'll be fine by yourself.

Answer 8

Your B/F is a Moron who will take off as soon as the sperm and egg meet....I say you stay in school and at least learn to spell and formulate a sentence properly before thinking about becoming a parent.

Answer 9

Tell your boyfriend to get lost. I have seen so many girls at my high school get pregnant and it never turns out well. Usually, by the time the baby is 6 months old, the boyfriend has a new girl in his life. Don't do this to yourself or an innocent baby.

Answer 10

I hope to god you are joking.

DON'T HAVE A CHILD AND EXPECT HIM TO TAKE CARE OF IT. EVEN IF YOU DON'T WANT IT, YOUR MOTHERLY INSTINCT WILL TO BE TO TAKE CARE OF THAT CHILD AND YOU WILL BE STUCK WITH A CHILD AT 15. NOT TO MENTION HE'S BLOWING SMOKE UP YOUR @$$

as soon as he has to miss a night out with his friends you will have that child back for the rest of your life.

15 is too young to be having s*x in the first place. If you have a head on your shoulders you will not talk to this dude ever again.

Answer 11

look im 17 and i understand how you feel my boyfriend is 20 and he tells me the same thing....and i believe him, hes the love of my life, and i have been with him since i was 14. BUT once i start thinking about it God is the only one that knows if things are gonna work out between us. How would u feel if you had a baby and your boyfriend does help u with him or her but things between you dont work out not even if you where so sure they would work out since the begining. then your gonna want to go out meet new guys and i doubt that a guy wants to date a 15yr old with a baby...so think about!!! not only that think about your family too they will be devestated to hear that there baby is having a baby

Answer 12

OMG!!!  NO!!! NO!!! NO!!! You are WAY too young, way too young.  Please do not do this!  You need to finish high school and so forth.  He can promise you the world, but I don't think this is a good idea.  You both are way too young to take care of a baby.

Answer 13

if your bf really cared about you and your thoughts and feelings and this is something you didnt want he would respect that and not pressure you into having one.. your way to young to have a baby and if you want to finish school thats something that you need to do and if you and you little bf are meant to be yall will stay together untill each one of you finish school and get married because if having a kid is soo important to him those things should be too .. so dont let him pressure you into doing something he wants to do because it wont be easy at that age and say he would get you prego he may get freaked out when it actually happens and leave are something

Answer 14

NO.

Answer 15

no dont have a baby just because he wants one. you both have to agree, but still dont because your only 15 and you said you want to finish school which is good.

and if he really cared he wouldnt pressure you into having a baby that young.

Answer 16

You can't even spell!!!! You need to stay in school, get an education and worry about kids later.

Answer 17

don't.Just wait untill you are older and out of school.That way you will have a good education to get a good job that way you can be able to afford to raise the child,

Answer 18

Don't be silly, he would get over that very quickly, plus the toll it would take on your body as far as pregnancy goes would drag you down at school also. Just please don't do it. Its not fair to you or the kid. I had my baby at 20 and it was extremely hard and I didn't have school.

Answer 19

dont your to young trust me it hurtts

Answer 20

I will tell you what. The answer is no....capitol letters NO....You have to much to do for yourself first. Waiting will not hurt anything, and if he is serious about you he will not push it. Really he should not be even asking this of you at this age. You take care of yourself first and foremost. Do not even think about it. Trust me it is not easy and it will change everythingg even your relationship with him. Please wait is the best advise. Have fun and finish school, there is time for all this way later in life...

Answer 21

If you're asking on Yahoo and full of questions, then you aren't ready. Your boyfriend might think he'll take care of it, but who's going to when he needs to go to work?

You just trust your instincts and finish school. A child could ruin your future unless you have it at the right age (which is not now).

Both of you have lots ahead of you. College, career, etc. You both have dreams to follow.

If he loves you, he'll wait. If you think both of you are going to stay together for the rest of your lives, then why not have it later? Why not finish school, get a career, start a home, settle, and start a family?

By then you'll be sure and stable enough to take care of it. Its not all bottles and what not. There's also all the paper work. Health care, insurance, etc.

If you really think about it, by the time your 35, at a high point in yourself where your not too young and not too old, your kid will need so many things. Car, college fund, tuition, everything! It takes money to raise a child. Both of you aren't ready.

I'm also sure your parents won't be too happy about this either. But its all up to you, your life, your rules. It's just a matter of you making it right or wrong.

Best of Luck.

Answer 22

your not ready

if you have it its your not your moms so you will miss out on ALOT

he wants the kid today but when the baby crys at 3 in the morning and you have to change the diaper youll be thinking where is he ???

and well your not ready

its not coming out of his body so what does he care what happens to you and if the baby is taken care of

why dont you do what you want

or talk to you parents first

im sure they will be the ones stuck with most of the work

Answer 23

NO NO NO Having a child in life long never ending middle of the night waking, back aching going all day can't forget they are there or they will die always wanting to cry needs you more than you need you.  Look dawg don't do it h**l don't even have s*x whatever what's his face wants is your Hoohoo and you need to not.  Finish school and do better things in life. Go to church, pray, resolve.

Answer 24

no and how the h**l is your bfgonna take care of both of u unless he has a highpaying job wich i doubt unless hes 30.

Answer 25

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Your boyfriend is obvisley still immature and not ready to be a father if he is putting this strain on you. and that you can both look after a child at this age. its ridiclous.

If you have baby now, you are basically ruining your life.. no partying, cant hang out with your friends , straight home from school and looking after a kid, hardly ny social life.

I very much doubt the father would be around for very long if hes beign like this. Boys come and go at this age.

you need to wait til your older , in love , good job , and you and your partner want to have a baby as much as each other.

i dont knwo you but honestly your gonan ruin your life. and dont want you to be int hat situtuion :(  

Answer 26

tell him that if he wants one, go find another girl, one who is willing to have one with him. it's a baby for crying out loud, not a damm compromise.

Answer 27

Don't have a kid. It's your body, not his.

DON'T!