Should i help my ex gf or not?

Question

I broke up with my gf a few days ago. I really love her but she started messing me about and taking me for granted so i had no choice but to end things.I hadnt heard from her since we broke up coz i thort she was angry with me and i was angry with her. but today i text her to see how she is and shes a real mess. on top of realising she's lost me n now its too late shes having loads of other problems. I still love her to bits and i wnt to make sure shes ok but i don't no what to do. she hasn't got many people close to her and i feel like i have to do sumthin coz i really care about her but on the other hand after whats shes done to me and for me to get over her shud i leave her to get on with her life?

Answer 1

just leave her alone and let her move on by herself

Answer 2

I think if you were to offer her help would ineveitably end up with you two getting back together - if you are sure you dont want this, then I wouldnt offer as she would see this as a sign of compassion on your behalf.

However if you still love her - are you sure that you dont want to give things a second chance?

xx

Answer 3

I wouldn't help. Sounds like she's realised what she's lost and wants to carry on taking advantage of you for as long as she can - or until someone else comes along.  

Answer 4

if u can get over what happened in ur relarionship can u be friends and help her out, ur obviosly bothered and care about her, so help her as a friend

Answer 5

I think that you should be helping her now, not wasting your time on Yahoo Answers.

Answer 6

i think you should leave her alone... she got what she deserve.and besides it'll just make things worst if you help her and then leave afterwards.  

if you really think she finally realize that what she did was wrong... and she's really sorry. maybe, you should help her.

but it's better if you leave her alone and move on.

Answer 7

ok now let me tell u dat u r a nice guy, coz u think a lot about ur girl frnd who dumped u. i mean really its sweet of u to atleast give this situation a thought. now in situations like this never listen to wat ur mind says listen to ur heart, because it leads u through the right way. now, do u still like her??? and do u wish to help her, take a moment and ask yourself about this. u want her to be okay , right??

i mean its always good to lend a helping hand even if its mean to a person u hate the most.Help her get out of all the problems shes going through. u'll may get into a relationship again or maybe not, but be sure of 1 thing, she'll always remember u as a nice frnd.  

good luck!!!

Answer 8

i think it would be the right thing to help her. you never know she might realise what its like to lose you and change for the better. but to sum it off, i think it would defiantly be the right thing to help her!!!!