Should i hide my bump?

Question

my husband died before i gave birth to his daughter and i am taking her to see his mum dad sisters and brother since he died i have remarried and had a son but i am now pregnant again i am only 2 months but i am unsure if i should tell them that i have a new husband and a son and i don't know if i should tell them that i am pregnant so should i tell them or not and hide my little bump up ????

can you please give me some advise on what to do !!! =)

Answer 1

If his parents haven't called to ask how their grandchild is or even to see how you were..I think thats ignorant. Im sorry for everyones loss, but Im sure that your husband whouldnt have wanted you to stay single and alone the rest of your life. Im guessing you had time between the marriages- in which case there is no reason that his parents shouldn't understand. If I were you I wouldnt hide anything

Best of luck

Answer 2

If you're only two months, then there probably isn't much of a bump to show... do mention that you've remarried since then, but maybe the pregnancy thing can wait. Most women I know don't mention it until the first trimester (first three months) are over, just cause those are when it's most likely that something will go wrong with the pregnancy, so it's perfectly OK for you not to tell them now.

Answer 3

Question: are you going to have the child?

If the answer is yes, then just show the bump. They'll find out anyway, and then you'll be a liar.

If not, then you may as well keep it a secret. They'll likely never know anyway.

Good luck!

Answer 4

if you are in a good relationship with you deceased husbands  family , tell them, i am sure they will be excited to know that you have  a new husband and moving on with your life.

i would tell if I was in your place, in any case they will be happy for you and love their new grandson just the same.

this is what your deceased husband would want for you, to be  happy, healthy, moving on with your life, and having a good relationship with his family. he will always be with you and would definitely want for you to tell his family...

i would tell because the stomach will grow and they will see it for themselves through the clothes, and it will be upsetting, good luck hun

tell them and congrats on the new  baby

Answer 5

you dont have to answer to them about you life so just be yourself and if ask be honest and if they are going to be a part of your daughters life they should be ok with you being you and having another life and family...so dont hide nothing from them and if they are not ok with who you are now thats them and not you but never hide who you are cause even tho you may not know it your daughter will see it..and kids do talk so just be open and honest with them.

Answer 6

You don't say how long it has been since his death.  I think that you should tell them.  It will come out one way or another.

Act like a adult and be honest.

Answer 7

It is okay that you have moved on from your husband's death. As long as you remain respectful, they will know that you went through a mourning period and then started fresh, and that is a positive thing.

Answer 8

Tell them the truth, They'll trust you more.

I'm sorry about your husband.

Good Luck with the family !!!