Should i hold a party for my birthday or go to London?

Question

I really want to have a hawaiian themed party for my 16th because i think i would enjoy it, but the problem is my family are not as close as they used to be, and conversation can sometimes get awkward, I'm worried it will be a dud party. Plus i have two dogs, and my cousin tends to hurt animals as fun, so that makes it awkward as well. Plus it would cost a lot of money which me and my parents don't really have. I am now starting to think a day in London with just me and my parents would be more fun and less stressing, but my nan will be really upset because she liked the idea of the party. I am really stuck in the middle and cannot decide, i want my birthday to be special. What do you think i should do?

Answer 1

Do what you want to do, not what your "nan" wants to do.

Answer 2

I THINK THE BEST THING FOR YOU TO DO IT MIGHT BE HARD TO TALK TO YOUR PARENTS BUT AS A PARENT I WOULD LIKE FOR MY KIDS TO TALK TO ME DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO IF YOU WANT TO GO TO LONDON GO BUT YOU CAN HAVE A CHEAP LITTLE PARTY GO TO LIKE DOLLAR STORES OR MAKE STUFF YOUR SELF AND AS FOR YOUR COUSIN PUT YOUR DOGS OUT OF THE WAY LIKE A BASEMENT OR TELL YOUR COUSIN YOU WILL TELL YOU PARENTS IF HE HURTS THE DOGS

Answer 3

Special for you or for everyone in your family? A birthday should be as stress-free as possible. and if a party involving your family will stress you at all, forget it. And that cousin of yours shouldn't be near your animals. I think you should go to London with your folks and while you're there, why don't you buy little souvenirs for your family when you get to London. Souvenirs that would remind them of the importance of family. Then get something extra special for granma. Trust me that works for everyone.

Answer 4

could you go to london and then have a little Hawaiian themed lunch, or something like that with your nan?  just something simple.