Should i just give up on him?

Question

Me and this guy dated last year for about 4 months, we broke up in Feb. I still really like him, and my best guy friend eli talked to him about me last night. eli said he still likes me and he misses me and everything, but he doesn't know what to do because his best girl friends don't want me and him dating. they said if he dates me again there not gonna be his friends. and theses 4 girls are my friends too, but I'm not worried about them right now. he said he don't wanna loose them and friends and he don't wanna loose me. he don't wanna have to pick, but there making him. im not making him do it tho. i like him so much. i know he wont make up his mind anytime soon. hes to afraid to talk to me about it cause he'll think i'll get mad. i don't know if i should give up or try harder. ive been trying to get back together with him since Feb. and i almost have it, but its too hard. should i give up or try harder. what should i say to him? he wants to go out with me but he don't wanna loose his friends, and they've been friends for like 8 years now. and he told eli he that theres no point of me and him going back out because hes afraid im gonna break up with him. i never broke up with him once. he said he dont wanna hurt me again and he thinks hes gonna do something stupid. and he did a lot of stupid stuff last year, but he dont wanna mess anything up. what should i do? what should i say? should i give up or keep trying. ive worked so hard, and i almost have it. i might give up tho. please help!!

Answer 1

if you really like him dont give up

youve worked hard to get him and thats just not fair

why dont these girls want him to go out with you?

thats just really b!tchy and rude

you should just confront these girls and say

"why dont you want me and (blank) going out

they are probably going to try and cover it up and be like oh no nono we didnt say that

but you should really go talk with him about it

if he really likes you he will try to take inititative and ask his friends why they are doing this

have u ever done anything to this girl?

i really hope this works out for you

good luck!

and just tell him how you really feel and talk to him about what you guys can do about this

Answer 2

Unless those girls are looking out for your best interest do not listen to them and go for the prize.

If you really like this dude, then go for him, do not back down.

Tell him that he should do what his heart tells him, if he likes you, and you like him, the two of you should be together. There is no reason why you shouldn't. Also, those girls do no have the right to tell him what to do, you should tell him that real friends would never make another friend make a decision like they are making him make.

Anyways, best of luck, if he really likes you, he will choose you, not his jealous friends, which really arent friends at all.

Good luck.

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Answer 3

Honestly, any guy who says he can't date someone because his friends won't like it, is probably not old enough to be dating at all. Plus, you said he did a bunch of stupid things last year. I would just give it a rest. You both need to do a little growing. I would say keep in touch with him, but don't go crazy trying to date him again -- I don't really think he's ready to have a girlfriend.... but you both seem to have feelings for each other, so just stay in touch... as friends/acquaintances... play it by ear... maybe in a few months a year (that may sound like a long time, but it's not really), maybe you will have both grown up a little and decide that you want to try again. Things might be better after he grows up a little :-)  But stay open to other guys too as well as just hanging out w/ friends -- it's not good to get to wrapped up in thoughts about guys.... it will just drive you nuts, haha and it doesn't accomplish ANYTHING. So just relax for now and have a great year!!!