Should i just let him go?

Question

Me and my boyfriend got in a huge fight yesterday. he found out that i started talking to my ex boyfriends sister when we broke up in may, and he thinks its because i wanted to get back with my ex which isnt and never will be the case at al.l i just was talking to her we used to be really good friends and then i had to stop talking to her because my new boyfriend didn't like it. i stopped talking to her again once we stared dating again what do i do? i wasnt doing it for the reason my boyfriend thinks but i cant get him to see past what he thinks already

Answer 1

cut your loses and dump him

Answer 2

SOUNDS LIKE  HIS VERY JEALOUSE,,BUT HE SHOULD NOT TRY TO PICK YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOU,,AND I F YOU LET HIM,,HE WILL ALLWAYS TELL U WHO TO TALK TO WHO TO SEE,N WHAT TO WEAR,,NOW CAN YOU LIVE WITH THAT JUST TO THROW AWAY YOUR FRIENDS N HAVE ONLY HIM AS YOUR FRIEND...PEACE

Answer 3

calmly explain to him that you just want to be friends with his SISTER. and this is no plot to "get him back." you have your boyfriend and you're happy with him. (:

Answer 4

I would just be really blunt about it. The super jealous relationships never get better and you end up completely isolated because they find a reason with everything. Try saying straight out "look, you need to be able to trust me if we are going to be together. There is no underlying reason for talking to her. She is my friend and will always be my friend". Either he can deal with it or not. Maybe he will see that you are serious and aren't going to lose a friend because he's insecure and stop trying to control you. Take care of it now before it gets worse and harder to leave.

Answer 5

Let me put it to you this way:

  Do you really envision a future with a man who controls who you can and cannot have contact with?  If you let him decide your actions with this person, he will forever dictate your social circles.  

Good luck but do what you know is best for you.

Answer 6

Jealousy is very hard. Sometimes, once a guy starts they wont drop it, it could make the relationship worst then cause you to feel guilty which you shouldn't for just having a friend. If he cant get over it and trust you the relationship isn't going to work and you don't need to stress over it. If he cant trust you it isn't worth your time trying to convince him. Think to yourself, is any man worth losing friends over? They say one of the signs you're in the wrong relationship is you become isolated from your friends. Good luck in your choices and remember what is really important, your health and happiness, not stress and worry.

Answer 7

He is jealous & controlling. Trust is one of the most imortant thing in relationships. Try to explain to him you have nothing to do w/ your ex. What he is doing can cause further insecurities & you don't want the worse things to happen.

Answer 8

He should worry more if you started talking to your ex, not your ex's sister. Your bf is crazy, you really need to reason things out with him. Tell him to stop being so insecure. His jealousy will just push you away from him. He needs to learn to trust you if he really loves you.