Should i just not go to the cinema with him?

Question

My ex boyfriend (who dumped me) invited me to the cinema like 3 weeks ago and keeps saying yeh we will go when ive got some more money..even though he still goes out with his mates etc. he never makes any effort to speak to me first online and when i do speak we talk quite alot but like earlier he came on and was obviously bored of speaking to me and said got to go bye. whenever i ask he says yeh i do want to go with you but in a few weeks when i have paid for my new car insurance etc. why did he even ask me to go in the first place??? should i just not go with him? im so upset tho cus i really want to go but i feel like im being messed around!! :'(

Answer 1

no he dumped you are you stupid just say no to get it up him!

Answer 2

dont go. you need the money, and he probably is going out with another girl to make you jelous.

Answer 3

And this affects Men's Health, how?

This question needs to be in the chatty girl forum.

Answer 4

I don't quite see where this concerns Men's Health - but you need to lose that guy like a bad habit!  He keeps dangling the bait, knowing you will trot right along, waiting, hoping, wishing that something will come of it.  It aint gonna happen.  Get over it.  Move on to the next level of your life  He's bad news.  Let him torment somebody else.  You are far above his degrading mentality.  Good luck.

Answer 5

It sorat des seem hes toying with your emotions and just trying to get under your skin and that fact that hes ur ex makes me feel that hes just trying to lead you on. And no offense but i say yeah ditch him becuase its better safe than sorry and hey theres other boys who will put you be fore car insurance =D lol  

Answer 6

Bamma say he messed up. Bamma say he no know how to treat girl. Bamma afraid you have to teach him. Bamma say he miss you after gone. Bamma say boy with money waiting to take you. Bamma say you talk too much online. Bamma say that annoy him. Bamma say he feel trapped. Bamma say he no want to really be there. Bamma say he keep you to look cool to friends. Bamma say he tell them he do things to you. Bamma say little boy not man. Bamma say run forrest run. Bamma otta know.  

Answer 7

This is men's health and not singles and dating.

Keep those questions there

It is not even a health issue

Planets.

Answer 8

yes you're being messed around get over him now or be prepared to get hurt later

Answer 9

He doesn't want to go with you, but you obviously won't stop bothering him.

Answer 10

He is messing you about darling, if you want someone to take you find someone reliable who won't expect a bj at the cinema or after

Answer 11

no he dumped you, if you want to, keep turning him down, thats what makes him want you more. but go if you want.i wouldnt, its probably some prak that he and his friends are setting up . that what i think. folow your heart. ask CLOSE friends if you havent already. good luck

Answer 12

Sounds like you're hanging on to something that's just not there. You say he speaks to you a lont online - I think he doesn't have many online friends but likes messing about on the computer. You're being used. You're not his priority, it doesn't even seem like you're on his list. For your own good, make yourself unavailable to this man. Go completely quiet online. You'll probably find he comes looking for you. When he does, put him off.