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Should i keep pursuing her or should i back off?

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I really like this girl at work. We have went out to lunch a few times alone. I have asked her out and she always seems to have a reason not to go. She asked me to go to a movie and I said yes. I asked her when she wanted to go and she replied with "as soon as possible", that was three weeks ago.

Two weeks ago, we where going to go but she did not answer her phone, so I went with my friends disc golfing. She called me back about an hour later just after i left. She said she really wanted to see me and to call her when i was done. I called her when I was done and asked if she wanted to get some food. She told me she was not hungry, so I told her I was going to get some food. After we hung up she called me back and asked if I wanted to go bowling. I told her I would get some food then meet her there. I meet her at the bowling ally and she was there with her friend. After we got done she gave me a hug and I went home because I had work.

last weekend we tried again. This time she could not go on saturday because her mom would not watch her daughter. We dicided to go sunday night after she went bowling with some other people form work. we planned on going at 9. I waited for her until nine, then I was thinking she ditched me, she called me at 9:30 and said sorry for being late. once again she said she wanted to see me, so I asked if she wanted to get ice cream. She asked where I wanted her to meet me. I told her a bulding not far from my house. She meet me there and we went to get ice cream. After we ate it I drove her back to her car and she asked if I was going to kiss her. I told her I did and then we kissed. It was a very good kiss about 30-45 second french kiss.

So last thursday I asked if she wanted to that night.. She had somethings to do this weekend and she said "maybe". Then one of her friends gave her a invotation to her birthday party. She called her mom her mom and asked if she would watch her daughter so she could go friday night then she asked if she could go to night with me.

After work she told me she would call and tell me if she could go. She called at eight and said she could'nt. I asked if she could go to the party and she said she could.

I think her mom said she could do one of the two choices and she picked the other one.

Today (friday) I told her I was going hunting on monday (my birthday) and I wanted to see her. She told me she asked her mom and she said "maybe", I told her I needed more then a maybe because I would go hunting all day if she was not going to go out with me. She told me she would ask again and call me tonight to tell me. She did not call.

Maybe I am just worring to much?

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  1. yes I think you are worrying too  much and no I dont think you should back off.

    I think she really likes you and the only reason she chose the friends party over goin out with you was becoz she didnt wanna dog a good friend and it was for a birthday whereas it wouldnt have been a special occasion as such to go out with you - (ie: it would have been a date)

    you are obviously both busy ppl who have your own lives which is great! maybe its a slow start to a relationship but you should definitly continue in the same direction and eventually if things become more serious you will find ways to spend more and more time together.

    hope this has helped and good luck!

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