Should i kick out my 25 yr old son?

Question

hes 25 with no degree, no job. basically, he doesn't know what to do with his life. changed his major 3 times, now all he does is stay home.

Answer 1

have a talk with him. father-son talk. in which, tell him politely abt your concerns regarding his future. ask him if you can help him in any way. maybe he needs guidance or has some learning disability or some other psychological issues. if its none of these and he's just lazy or overly dependent, ask him politely to leave your house. it'd be good for him in the long term. coz you all are not gonna be around and able to support him for ever.

Answer 2

give him a push(as in kick him OUT)and he will eventually thank you for it.

Answer 3

You gotta do something.  

Answer 4

I would have said yes even before I read the discription.

It would be different if he was in college.

He cannot make up his mind about anything

Give himan ultimatum...

1. Get a job and help out around the house

2. Get out

Tell him to choose.

Answer 5

I am 29 and have been on the receiving side of this... and now i refuse to talk to my parents i feel hurt and betrayed. because of the way the handled it. You should talk with your son (he may be depressed - as i am) and as him about his goals in life. what he wants to accomplish and how YOU can help him achieve his goals. Maybe he just needs a little encouragement or a pep talk. Tell him how proud you are of the things that he has accomplished don't just beat him down for the things he hasn't. I am sure if you just talk things out you can get to the root of the problem because you cant solve the problem  until you identify exactly what it is.

good luck !!!

Answer 6

h**l no he's ur son

Answer 7

I wouldn't say kick him out, but put your foot down and let him know he must do something with his life and not depend on you or others for his needs.  At 25, he does need to work, but having an education is more valuable.  Give him an ultimatum and if he chooses not to do anything, you have did your best but he needs to move out.

Answer 8

Try this:

"You need to get a job so that you can either go back to school or move out.  If you go back to school you owe me $--- a month.  If you can't do that then move out.  It will cost you a lot more somewhere else.  I love you, but I can't babysit you and take care of you anymore.  You need to get responsibility for yourself...  YOU ARE 25!"  

Answer 9

You could kick him out or give him a few ultimatums. He can go back to school and get his degree or stay at home and work. Give him 2 weeks to get things together. If he can't, let him know he gotta  go!!!!!

Answer 10

Yes, you should kick out your 25 year old loser leech of a son.

Answer 11

make him get a job or go to college... if he refuses ..threaten to kick him out... but try to be as strait forward about why exactly you are kicking him out...don't just tell him to leave... because he may never forgive you for it... and will only result in family trouble.

Answer 12

I think that you should make him get a job. He can stay at your house until then and when he gets a good job make him move out.

Answer 13

yes you should...i think you are going to have to force him to grow up...if he has the option of sitting at home and watching tv all day, having his food provided for him...why would he want a job...he's got it made...i'm 19 and live on my own and support myself...

Answer 14

KICK HIM OUT