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i have been with my boyfriend for four years on the 8th september.We started off as friends as we lived ina house share, but we got along so well and fell for each other. He was 21 at the time and never met a girl he wanted to settle down with until me (i knew him before we lived together). We have lived together 3.5 years and we still get along great. We make each other laugh and i love him so much. BUT... we live seperate lives. We have seperate nights out (except the odd one) and he doesnt make as much effort with my friends and family as i do with his.I want to spend time together and it has been an issue for me for three years. We are both young (hes 25 and im 22) and i think its important we enjoy nights out with friends. But there seems to be no mixture, we spend more time apart and we live together! i know he is in love and ive tried speaking to him loads over three years. Im scared its never going to change... hes laid back and thats his excuse for everything.We broke up last year coz of this and we got back together cos it felt so wrong. But he told me last week that he doesnt think he can give me the relationship i want- which is an actual relationship.Everyone thinks our relationship is weird- and it is. I find myself trying to justify it all the time. i love him so much... but we want different things right now. If im going to be in a relationship- i want to be in an actual relationship. He has a live in girlfriend and does what he wants when he wants. We rarely do anything together and we arent alone cos his brother moved in a year ago.
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