Should i let her take our relationship to the 'next' level?

Question

i've been dating the same girl for 2 months. she's a lot more experienced than i am sexually. the furthest i've gotten is like second base haha. i'm just really nervous that if i go all the way with her, i'll let her down.

should i go for it anyway?

Answer 1

personally, i waited until i was truly ready. i reached a point where the nerves were outweighed by how much i wanted to share the intimacy of s*x with my partner. talk to her and let her know how you feel -- honesty is an important foundation in any relationship. i'm sure she'll understand and there's lots of fun things to do in the meantime -- most of which have nothing to do with s*x. just be honest with her and i'm sure it'll be fine -- if you talk to her, chances are you won't feel so alone in the decision and that's really important when you're inexperienced. if she's not fine with it, then you can do better. i've just found that forcing yourself to do something for someone else never turns out good. best of luck!

Answer 2

go for it ,maybe at the end you know more than her lol

Answer 3

I'd say that if you have to second guess it, then you're not completely ready. You shouldn't do it if you're not yet ready. Let it happen naturally because you won't want to regret that first experience. If she disagrees with your decision, then I'd say you'd know what she's all about.

Good luck

:)