Should i look for an ex husband i shouldn't have divorced i miss him and think we could be happy.?

Question

he cheated a couple times but i miss him

Answer 1

This is why I think it's ridiculous for people to automatically divorce after an affair.  Because it can't change the way your heart feels love for him.  You made your bed, now you've gotta deal with the consequences.  You weren't willing to deal with it then, so why are you so willing to deal with it now?  I think it's just your loneliness that is driving you to think that you should get back together.  

Answer 2

It's up to you...just be prepared for him to cheat again.

Answer 3

LOL, sure go back to him so he can cheat on you a few more times.  Never forget why he is an ex.

Answer 4

He is an ex for a reason. Don't go back the same thing will happen again and you will feel worse because you fell for it again.

Answer 5

You can try to reach out but just be prepared that he might be already involved with someone else.

Answer 6

Why would you want him back if he cheated on you not once but a couple of times? Your probably just feeling lonely and he's a familiar comforting feeling that you feel is missing. That's not a reason to get back with him. Ugh, I would never want my husband back if he cheated on me, just the thought of him inserting himself inside another woman and then coming back home to me like nothing was wrong disgusts me!!

I'd stay away and start fresh. Do you really want to keep having doubts in your marriage everytime he walks out the door?

Answer 7

Unless he contacts you? Leave sleeping dogs lie. The fact he hasn't,its telling you he has moved on. I know its a bitter pill to swallow, but you have to. You all divorced for a reason, never stop playing the good memories in your head, but be realistic and recall why you both divorced. Then move on, the world is a huge place full of single men, go find one.