Should i make things up with my cusin???

Question

i havent talked to her or seen her in about a year b/c she moved out of da house and got wit mai x about aweek after i broke up with him i didnt know she got with him till a frend told me...n-e-wayz i want to make things up but i feel like she didnt kare of mai feelings wen she got with him and i really dnt need a persn like that in mai life...but then again i kind of miss her even though she traded our friendship for a guy..help!

[by the way i kind of still have feelings for my x]

Answer 1

But at least  she did wait till you broke up.

I say give your cuz another chance.

Answer 2

First of all... learn how to speak (or write, for that matter), for Christ's sake. You sound like a r****d.

Second... your cousin is your family. Nothing should come between you and your family, espeacially not a guy. If she had such a lack of respect for you that she disregarded your feelings and went for your ex, then you need to show her who's the bigger person. Talk to her about how you felt, and try to move past it. Men are idiots anyways, and not worth losing your relationship with your cousin over.

Answer 3

Friendship shouldn't interfere with any guys. Fix it!

Answer 4

we really feel bad and miss alot if they leave us alone. When she is not karing you its the time to move on.

Answer 5

Have at least one heart to heart conversation with your cousin before you decide to end your relationship.  That way, you can make an informed decision.

Answer 6

dont let a  guy get in the way of this. your family and you dont know when your gonna lose each other. make up, life istoo short. you dont know what youve got til its gone.

<3 LOVE IS LIFE.

Answer 7

I think you should call her up and tell her exactly how you feel.  If she truly regrets it, than forgive her.  If she still doesn't give a cr*p about how you feel, than you don't need her OR him.  Good luck!

Answer 8

learn to  spell u ****** r****d who would want to listen to ur sob story

Answer 9

If your cousin would get with your ex then she really is nasty and could give a **** about you or your feelings. You can invite her back in your life if you want because you miss her but I guarantee that she will be with your current man. Sometimes family will do you worser than people on the street and I advise you to never trust her again....cousin or not.

Answer 10

Tough decision. If you truly miss your cousin then by all means call her - but make sure you are strong enough to handle the fact that you may run into the two of them together.

He is your ex for a reason and if he stooped so low as to date your cousin he ain't sh*t and you should be glad that he is gone. With any luck he'll s***w her over too and then you two can reunite without having to look at his azzz...........

By the way your cousin sucks too and she was probably s******g him before the two of you broke up - trust me..........

I would tell her to kiss my azz and find someone else to hang with that respects and loves you more..........

Answer 11

I don't know. I'm old and I don't have the balls to make up with my cousing who said I was disrespecting the memory of our retarded uncle who diede.

I say do it if you can, otherwise it will suck when you get older and can't get ahold of anybody to go smoke hookah with you at the bar or something because you can't talk to your cousin.

Answer 12

First you should learn to use a keyboard.  Then, learn to spell.  Next, your "x" is better off without you.  So is your cousin.

Answer 13

if you have feelings for you're cousin's bf (your ex) its best you will stay away from this till you got over these feelings.

as for relationship with your cousin, you should make up with her... as soon as you get over these feelings

Answer 14

I'm sorry your going to have to include vowels in your post or at least pass one English class before. I can respond, let alone read your question.

Answer 15

Tell her the truth. She would be a jerk of a friend if she still didn't care. If you trust her then tell her. It's not like you just met her.

Answer 16

yes, family comes first for everything

Answer 17

Sorry to say but **** that cousin. Anybody willing to disregard your feeling once can easily do it again and again. Just for a fling with this guy. So many other guys out there, like me. But anyways....... let her keep the chode and pick another cousin.