Should i not have the baby???

Question

Should i not have the baby he said he cant stand to see my face right now. and will talk when he's ready i just wanna go back to CA should i just not have the baby and leave????

Answer 1

I would leave, no one deserves to be treated like that, as for the baby, think for a week and then decide.  Talk to Planned Parenthood about your options, you will get a lot of flak in this forum if you decide on an abortion, so that is why I suggest to think for a week.  

Answer 2

You don't have to consider an abortion... Remember there are plenty of people who are willing to adopt.  There are some churches and private organizations that offer a chance for you to choose who adopts the baby.

Answer 3

not really too sure what you are talking about???

Answer 4

You can be a great single mommy.

Even females with "daddy" in their lives doesn't mean their life is easier, some times they have looser alcoholic, drug addicted lazy BF's that only make, raising a baby way worse.

Don't be scared to do it alone. If your really unsure give the baby up for adoption. If you abort it'll haunt you for life.  

Answer 5

If you WANT a baby, you should have it because you will regret it otherwise (it will be the hardest thing you ever done though).

If you really don't want a baby right now then don't have it AND LEAVE that guy pronto.  

Answer 6

HAVE THE BABY>>> DON"T KILL AN INNOCENT LITTLE KID> OVER SOME STUPID MAN>>> AND IF YOU REALLY DON"T WANT THED CHILD> THEN GIVE IT UP FOR AN ADOPTION>>

JUST DON"T KILL THE BABY..

Answer 7

I would go back home and have the baby and give it up for adoption....by all means honey don't have an abortion....you will live to regret it for the rest of your life.....I sat in a clinic waiting for my name to be called to pay for my abortion and as I went up I looked back at my mom and best friend and said should I? and they both said it's up to you you are an adult and can make up your own mind no one can make this decision but you....so I looked back at the receptionist and said I am sorry can you cancel my appt I cannot do this she said sure and good luck with your baby.....his was my 4th son and I love him dearly he is now 21 years old and doing great has 2 babies of his own and I couldn't be happier with my decision.

Answer 8

you SHOULD have the baby and leave!!!!!!! if u cant take care of this baby then give it to someone who wants a baby who cant have one u have no right to take this babys life bc u have a *** hole 4 a bf

Answer 9

You should've asked yourself this Q before you got pregnant.

Now, all you can do is give birth, if you don't want him, let someone else take care of him. It's not the baby's fault.

Choose Life

Answer 10

It's your choice, we can't make it for you.

Answer 11

Why would you give up an innocent unborn child just because some guy is being a jerk? There are plenty of other guys in the world who would want to be with you and wouldn't turn their backs on you just because they were stupid enough not to use protection. Forget about the a hole and move on with your life!! There are plenty of single mother's out there and of course it will be hard but you will get through it! Just pray & everything will work itself out. Good luck & hang in there!  

Answer 12

You are the only one who can answer this BUT I can tell you that if you do want to have children then maybe have the baby and keep it if you don't want the baby why not have the baby and try an open adoption where you can pick the parents and get to know them to be sure that they are right for your baby (plus this way you can ask to see your baby when you want to but you will loose all opinions on how the baby is raised)

but like most people have said before me you are the only one who can make this decision

Answer 13

So, you rather kill your child because a man was mean to you?

Answer 14

This is something you're going to have to decide for yourself. Not your boyfriend. Not your friends. Not your mom. Not your faith. You have three choices, and none of them are easy, because whatever you decide to do is going to affect you for the rest of your life.

I would suggest you do a lot of research before making this difficult decision.  

Answer 15

Only you should answer that, do whats in your heart.