Should i or not do this??????

Question

i'm male. really really confused...should i meet this person online? he wants to meet to start a relationship or sth like that but only if it works out/we click. should we meet? im not scared but im just not really comfortable and i hate/dislike getting out of my comfort zone. i hav like no friends here as i've recently moved...should i meet? encouragement/discouragement needed!!!!!

Answer 1

If you do, ONLY in a very public place.

Answer 2

public place, talk about anything- where you grew up, what you do for fun, what your family's like, your favorite movies, favorite music

Answer 3

Meet with him.

If it goes well, you could end up having a partner, which is good.

If it goes badly, well, it won't be much of a loss because you haven't invested much feelings towards the guy yet. You can still get on with your life and hope to be lucky next time.

Talk about anything that comes into your mind.. Planning what to say always ruins everything..

Answer 4

i dont see anything wrong with this. a lot of ppl meet online and some turn out good. Just make sure you do it where there is a lot of ppl around (public) and during the day.

goodluck!

Answer 5

I'd go with my gut instinct.... always trust your gut. It's telling you something and you should listen to it.

If you are having trouble meeting people, try to join some social clubs like sports that you may enjoy or hobbies that you are interested in. The internet is a very vulnerable place to be in when you are feeling lonely and an easy place to get into trouble with....

Even if you join a gym, or attend your local community clubs. If you are older even a singles club could offer a bit more protection.

Answer 6

I wouldn't meet the guy. It sounds kinda iffy. I mean there are a lot of wierd confused people out there. This guy might be fine but you never know. I say keep talking to him online but if he keeps trying to meet you then stop talking to him. Hope this helps!

Answer 7

Its a 50/50 chance that you will meet the person that you were really talking to, and this if this person really just wants to hurt you.

You know what? I wouldn't risk it. If your gut says no then don't do it. Usually, your gut is your basic in stinks. If your out of your comfort zone then dont do it. Its better then be safe then sorry. So try seeing if this guys is non dangerous. No adays, there are alot of online predators.