Should i or shouldnt i, if so what should i say ?

Question

so i went out with this guy a few year ago, and last year me and this guy met up, we had a little row and he said he never wanted to see me again.

Today i just read in the paper that his sister had died.

And now im really upset becuse she was a beautiful girl she was only 25 but had 5 children and was married.

I know joseph will be upset and probably suicidal and i just want to go to his house and cuddle him, like she did when me and her brother did when we had rows.

I have been in too minds abouts sending flowers, afterall he didnt want to see me again, but then again his sister treated me like a member of the family and was the only one that welcomed me.

So if i just left everyone would think i didnt care .

So should i send flowers or not?, i think i want to.

but heres another thing what should i put in the card?, if it was a letter ide be able to write loads but in a card you can get a few lines in it, so what could i actually put on the card to show how sorry iam?

thanks

Answer 1

oh, could you be nice to him, and chat with him.

Answer 2

he needs whatever comfort you can give him, believe me.

Answer 3

my girlfriend was murdered 5 yrs ago on xmas eve,by her son with a sword.I went 2 the hospital where they put him+im glad i did as he should never be released.

say whats in your heart-past is passed whats to come that counts hun.tell him how shocked+saddened you & everyone else is +that you would like to see him-cos you so obviously do.Tell him youll be there+add ya mobile no etc,all the best xx

Answer 4

Go and see him ,,He might have a new g/f so no prob,if he hasn't he may like to share a memory about his sister with you .

It's a kind thing to do and I can't imagine him being upset .

If he is upset about you going to the funeral , then you were lucky not to waste any more time on him

Answer 5

OK send him a sympathy card a little note on it saying he or any member of his family can call at any time if they need to talk.

Answer 6

if you know this fella Joseph really well i would send him flowers and a card saying you where really sorry to hear about his sister passing away. Your thoughts are with him and his family, and you would just like him to know your here if he needs you , you might not hear anything from him as he may be to upset, but sometimes it is enough small comfort to know people care and have taken the time to show this all the best mouse

Answer 7

get in contact somehow, i'm sure he wont think its an excuse to get back with him it's probably the last thing on his mind right now, maybe give him a call. he must be really upset