Should i propose to her?

Question

Here's the story....

We didn't have a clear break-up so i don't know if she's still my girlfriend. We are in a long distance relationship for three months. She was very sweet and she promised me that she would never ever replace me and that i am the one she would spend her life with. But two weeks ago, i caught her having an affair with someone else whom she also new in the net. I don't know if they already met but i think they really love each other coz i can see their sweet words for each other in the friendster's group discussion board. I am desperate and beg for us to meet. We will be meeting this friday and spend couple of days together. I am planning to propose to her in the sweetest way i know. Should I do this? Do i have the chance to win her heart back?

P.S. her new lover is geographically nearer to her and their age is much more compatible. I'm 18, she's 29 and her new lover is 34.

no rude comments pls. it will just add to my heartache

Answer 1

Dude, your 18!!! Don't get married any time soon buddy!!

Answer 2

STAY AWAY from this chick. Stop obsessing over someone on the computer. Find a real girl your own age that lives near you and start a relationship with a real person.  

Answer 3

Aha.......u need a headache now?

Answer 4

I don't mean to be rude here, but you just listed seven different reasons in your post why proposing to her know would be a very bad idea.  Don't do it.

Answer 5

lol ha ha. sorry but you are not thinking straight she is too old for you she is not looking to get married she wants other thing. why can you look for a real girl in your city that you can date.

Answer 6

no if she doesn't want you a ring will not change her decision you are just setting yourself up for some more rejection.

Answer 7

proposing to someone to try and win em back aint the answer!!

if shes cheated on u now she may do it again in the future!! you are still young, go out and find someone else!!! xx

Answer 8

Dude, don't propose to her..yet. Wait for the right time. And trust me, now is not the right time. If she really did PROMISE that she will never ever replace you & yet, she's having an affair with someone she just met, are you sure she's the right woman for you?

P.S. Age doesn't matter,yes. But it's really difficult for someone younger like you to be in a relationship with a person 11 years older.

TRUE LOVE WAITS. :)

Answer 9

I'm sorry to say but in my opinion I don't think it would be wise for you to propose. If she has someone else the chances are that she will decline you anyway. You are still young and have plenty of opportunities in meeting other women and finding someone that won't treat you like that. Long distance relationships can work but I thinks thats if you've been in the relationship for a long time not just 3 months. People sometimes say things in the heat of the moment and don't really mean them. She may have said those things because she thought thats what you wanted to hear at that time. We all do it. She isn't a very nice person if she's with someone else and leaving you not knowing where you stand. But know that you could be able to read what shes been saying with the other person.

I hope this helps but you should think more of yourself and never be desperate or beg to see someone. If she is struggling to see you then i'm affraid she's not interested anymore and has moved on. Don't give her that satisfaction and whatever you do, don't propose!! Good luck and let me know if you can, what happens.