Should i? relationship help!?

Question

so there is this person i like, but i dont know if they like me back, and i know from experience from being their friend that if someone likes them that they dont like back, they get weirded out and stop being their friend/talking to them. and i do not want to lose this person as a friend. but i like them so much. and if they do like me i know theyd be perfect for each other. but they never tell anyone they like someone so if they liked me they would never tell anyone not even their closest friend because that is how they are. should i tell them i like them and risk losing their friendship or not? i like them so much and i would do anything for them so i dont know what to do. how can i find out?

Answer 1

I think you should explain to them that you like them, but tell them that if the feeling is not mutual that you would still like to be friends because you dont want to lose them all together.

Answer 2

this is a really hard situation. I think that you should maybe bringg it up in a subtle way. Be like "lol so this person asked if we were togeather today" and see how they react. If you think they might be interested then go for it. Its not you likeing them that will mess up your friendshipp tho If you guys get togeather and it dosent work out then you most likely will lose your friendship because its just the way things happen. so i think that you should make sure that its what you really wanna do and if it is go for it you only live once.