Should i restart the relationship with him?

Question

ok its sorta a long story, but here goes:

so before lAst summer, like summer of a year ago i was frineds with this guy, lets call him "J" . it was sort of thru a frind, where hse had told me about him, so i friend requested him on facebook and he sort of acceptred didnt rlly know hu i was tho wtvr long story

anyways, eventually we became pretty good friends, talked online like ALL the time, chilled when we could over the summer (except that he lived far and i was, like, 15 so i ***** drive anywhere yet, it would have to be whenevre i biked to his city like 4 miles away)

anyways, im almost positive at one point he liked me, at which point i wasnt Sure if i liked him back or was just flattered or if i simply enjoyed flirting even? so like once he sez to me, in a differnt language "i like u" and hetells me how im fast, pretty and smart.... and then like waaaaay later he IMed me and sed "so when do we go out"

excpet i wasnt sure if he was being seriosus or not, so i got very skeptical and almsot accidentally turned him down

i think since around then he started talkign to me less, wudnt answer his fone anymore and if he did talk hed be like "what do u want" as if i cant call him just to talk.

so then i prank called him with my friend, it was stupid to od i guess cuz it was RLLY late and we dint even realize and we called his House number wen he dint answer his cell. since then hes pretty much stopped tlaking to me, suddnely sed im too immature for him, im prank calling wtvr.

idk if thats actually y, cuz i feel like He thinks i rejected him and stopped talkin to m buit used this as an excuse. i tried for a WHIle to get the real rason out of him, but he usually woudnt answer me Anyways so like eventualllly i gave up

now like monthsss later he instant messaged me"im sorry" and then signed off

i wasnt rlly sure if it was him, and thot even if it IS im not gonna let it go just like that. so my friends chatted him on facebook, and he sed it Is him...that he just wnated me to kno that he doesnt HATE me cuz thats wats been going around. rite

so anyways, i inboxed him and told him i wasnt sure if he expected to suddnely be frnds again since hes ignored me for so long, and if im too immature for him then idk that i still wanna b frnds with him but like idK

and hes like ok fine, just clarifying that he doesnt Hate me cuz hate is a strong word etc.

that was like a week ago, and now today again he IMed me asked me wen school start wtvr sorta small talk. i wudnt let it go i asked him y he stopped tlaking he sed cuz im too immature for him

anyways i was beign sorta mean cuz im not usre if i want our rltnship to restart or not

i rlly liked being frnds with him, but either he Actually thinks im too immature, in which case i Dont want much to do with him

or he LIked me and he cant bring himself to admit it, whcih pisses me off just as much!

help@

Answer 1

This was long but your spelling killed me really.You should let this whatever you call it relationship go.

Answer 2

Ok i understand where this is going well lets see, number one if he was interested in u he would of man up to it and confessed that he really likes u but in another way he just acted like an jerk. In my opinion i think that u should just give him a second chance because everyone in life deserve a second chance to prove themselves to there love one so just suck up everything this guy have done and just give it another try with ya heart sweetie ok

Answer 3

d**n girl,i tried but i just couldnt finish reading

Answer 4

i would love to help you but being honest no one will read all that.

Answer 5

Sweetie, i know that this is hard to hear.

but you are very immature and i think thats why he stopped

talking to you (because you played way too many games).

and as for admitting to you that he liked you he already did that hun, and you were playing games with his head and heart. i think the person who needs to be apoligizing here is you. i think the most he will be with you now is friends.I think that you should try and redeem the friendship unless you want your immaturity to ruin another good thing,good luck :)