Should i sock my bully in the face?

Question

ok i got a bad assymetrical haircut and this guy wont stop giving me a hard time about it. he normally gets his group of friends involved (so its me against up to 6 older boys) he catches my school bus in the morning and when i get off the bus he yells stuff at me. mostly that my hairs "f****ed up". ive tried ignoring it, standing up for myself, even befriending him- nothing works. i yelled at him to f*** off and get a life once but that didnt work. its gone everyday for like 8 weeks now and if i tell a teacher nothing will happen, probably get worse. (the teachers at my school are c**p).

should i punch him in the face? im pretty strong but im scared his friends will gang up or something. i dont care about getting suspended.

Answer 1

they probably might jump you so i suggest you tell your parents to call the school so something can get done.  i would want my kids to tell me.  as a matter of fact this girl at the bus stop started picking on my daughter at school and she told me and i called the school and my daughter and the girl  with the principal had a meeting and the principal told the other girl she would be expelled from school if she bothers my daughter again and she never bothered her again. it does not hurt to try

Answer 2

honeslty if u think that u can take him, do it... but if u r sure his friends will back him up, then either don't do it or get some bigger guys to back u up... but if it's been 8 weeks see if you can get ur hair fixed, honestly hair grows and im sure he has had a bad haircut too

Answer 3

It is very sad that there are such people in this world.  I am sorry you are going through this and you certainly don't deserve it.  Sounds like you've got a good head on your shoulders and you may be correct about the teachers at your school.  However, I once was in a situation with someone bullying me in the 6th and 7th grade.  I am currently 42 yrs old and have been around long enough to see what comes around goes around (or whatever the saying is)  Anyway, I finally got so tired of it and went to see a guidance counselor I thought I could trust.  I let her know that I didn't want it to seem like I had "ratted" this person out but that I wanted an adult at the school to take notice of what was going on and then to address the bully for me.  At least this way, while at school or  on the bus I would be safe.    It sounds like you have a weak bus driver, too.  It is a shame that people don't get more involved.  Even adults can be scarred of the these bullies.  I've have made it my nature to stick up for others.  

Have pride in yourself, you know what they are doing is wrong.  Understand that they are the weak ones.  Getting angry at them is so not worth it!  Instead of concentrating on this worthless piece of you know what, concentrate on yourself, school, and your character and don't let him get the best of you.  

I swear life is full of tests and if you can get through them (have faith in yourself and you will)...you will find out that in the end you will always be the winner.  I have had a tough life, but staying positive, persevering  and do the right thing has helped me to have a good life... we are all tested in life...make the right choices (ex. if it feels like the wrong thing to do, then it probably is...) and you will do well.  Good luck.

Answer 4

I would just ask him "why are you so worried about my haircut? You seem to have a lot of interest in women's hair, are you thinking of becoming a stylist?"  Then start asking him a bunch of questions about how to make your hair look better.  Ask him like he's one of your best girl friends.  That will embarass the c**p out of him.

Answer 5

I am 35 so I must say legally to report to the school. But, when I was younger; I took a different approach. If I could find him alone everyday, I would let him know I was there. Fight or not. Flight only leads to an everyday thing. If he kicks your *** everyday, dont matter, let him know you are there. If he has a mark on his face, he will know you r not taking his c**p. He will move on. It might take afew times.  But , how many times will it take if u let it go on????

Answer 6

just ignore them , act like they are not there. They will get bored with it. You are giving them a reation and they love it. After this long your hair has changed so they are just out to bully. Try in a really bored voice, like they are not worth your time (which they are not) saying "Whatever".

Answer 7

just ignore him he will stop edventually if you punch him you will get busted and your mother and father will be very mad all kids say idc if i get suspended but its the parents you need to deal with