Should i stay or should i go ? Guys please help !!!!?

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Should i stay or should i go ? Guys please help !!!!?

**A while ago(a month), i dragged it out of my boyfriend that he was not happy in his life and that he couldn't 'do this' right now. It was emtionally draining,tears on both ends of the phone and i thought i would never hear from him again.

*He then text me 4 days later asking how i was , silly question ?! But i ignored it until he rang to explain what had happened...He had been having some serious issues at work, he had tonsilitus, its a family business so he is talked to at home all the time too and it just got too much for him.

**Anyway.. i flew out to see my dad in cali to cheer myself up and when i got back he wanted to try and sort things out, so i agreed to meet him (last monday) and we spent the day and night like nothing had ever happened??!! I was still so hurt and it didnt feel right having him all over me and i had to stop it which really upset him. I said i dont know if he would do it again, well that caused the biggest strop ever and he was so cold with me after that and wouldnt talk to me.

In the morning (like most guys) he was all over me, but i just cried because i felt like i was lost in limbo or something? Then he was late for work and went into one of his foul moods. He has been cold ever since with me and im finding it really hard to cope.

*I have zero energy, i cant eat, sleep, nothing...

*I have done NOTHING but support him and give give give and although he says he cares about me, loves me and wants to be with me, he continues to push me away. I cant stop crying i hate this feeling inside me.

*I have been through so much and i dont get why this is eating me up so much?? I guess i just thought i finally found someone i really loved.

*He was Prince Charming before and he thought i was his princess except i showed my flaws, he didnt.

* He parents are furious as to how he has been with me, which i thought was quite sweet, he is an amazing person but it seems he is having some emtional breakdown, he says he constantly feels like he is going to be sick or have a heart attack -25 yr old guy, should this happen?

I have let down work, my dance class people, my ice skatin buddies ..all because i am so bloody chocked up over this..where has my soul gone ..??

Should i help the man i love or walk away, i have helped and faught for him so much, what now?

Please help ...thanks guys in advance for all your answers.xxxxx

Answer 1

go

Answer 2

You should go

Answer 3

i think you butter go because it might happen and you don't went to get in a fight a bout it and say thing that might hurt the other pres on and if kept acting like a jerk and i would i find some wear to live then with him and he Tore you like trash and why would you say with him if your the one he hurt you and i would find some to live with tell him to lev and if he dose not love you beside can you trust him to be with you and he is a band pres on and don't bilve any thing that he say  

Answer 4

You need away from this draining relationship..

Answer 5

wow... i think you shuld walk away because it always gets worse...

Answer 6

your dp is pretty : )

Answer 7

go  

Answer 8

He was probably in a weird mood (the first time), if your not gonna satisfy him, let him go

Answer 9

Walk away. You have to learn that people change and so do the circumstances. You need to learn to let go. Even if you don't want to. Don't throw yourself out on another's whim. People change, as do intentions and as a result, consequences. Live for yourself. Love those around you, but realize that they've got their own agendas. Honestly, you're just wasting your time if you're just going to hurt yourself. He's not worth it. You're better than that.  

Answer 10

The decision is ultimately yours.

My advice would be to go now. You've already fought as hard as you can. This guy needs to go after you, and prove he loves you. Don't spend another day worrying about this (extremely difficult, I know) it isn't healthy for you.

Don't give it another chance. It's time for you to move on and go. The pain you're feeling will subside. I know it's hard to walk away from love, but love can come again, and I presume you're young.

Do you have any friends you can be with right now? Keep yourself busy, answer questions on here. I dealt with a similar relationship problem and it helped coming on answers to help other people with problems. You will make it through this. You'll love again. Happy thoughts?

Answer 11

If i was you i would leave him to stir for a while and sort out yourself first. If he really loves you he would respect you to give you space as you did with him. Clear your head and get back into work and back out with your friends. It will take a while but after a while you'll realise whether your happier with him or without him. Relationships are never easy but you have to put yourself first. Maybe your boyfriend could use this time to try and sort out his responsibilities at work if its too much for him. Chin up girl hope you get it sorted xoxo

Answer 12

Find yourself someone better you don't need the kind of baggage from a guy.

Answer 13

even if im not a guy you should GO!! TRUST ME GO

Answer 14

if he has not been fighting for you, and hasn't been understanding of how hard this has been for you, then i would move on. What makes my relationship with my girlfriend is that I understand and sympathize with her when she's in pain. I hold her while she will cry about whatever is wrong, and i just stay with her till she is better. And she is my world, because she has made me hers. This is not healthy for you, and i am sure there is a better match out there for you, you just don't know it until you can have the chance to look back and see where the cracks in that relationship were never going to stop till it all broke away.

Answer 15

Leave his ***... hang w/ me - I will treat you well, like the princess that you really are.