Should i stay with him PART 2?

Question

I just wanted to say thank you to all those that responded to (SHOULD I STAY WITH HIM)., i still feel sick to the stomach when i think about those photos. And just for those who said i am too young to have a baby and its not just a doll, i realise that ok i have just had an ectopic pregnancy and now i might need IVF..so if the same people are reading this pls tell me your thoughts.

Answer 1

yes I'm still reading it, and to the first poster, she did not spell realize wrong, she is prob in the UK or canada, thats how they spell it there.

listen, honey, have the baby if you want but i will say again to make sure you can provide for it ON YOUR OWN. this is a life you are talking about here, and your guy is NOT ready for it. hes NOT ready at all

Answer 2

I stand by what I said before...tap into your instincts...are they telling you something is wrong? Also, I don't agree with people when they say that he wouldn't have shown them to you if he did anything...some guys are THAT arrogant and wave c**p right in front of girl's faces. It's up to you to think about whether you trust him or not. You need to ask him flat out though...if you can't communicate with him then perhaps it's time to move on. Also, if you thought to ask if he'd met anyone or had pictures...that might be a sign of mis trust or insecurity. If you've just had a pregnancy your hormones are also a little crazy, it may not be truly you. Time to get to thinking and reflecting...make a decision that will make you happy in the long run, which may be harder for a time but turn out for the best. Nothing is worse that wondering and not trusting someone. You said you trust him but I don't think that's true because you asked the question...you might WANT to trust him but do you really? Good luck

And just for the record, no one has any right to tell someone that they are too young for a child...there are PLENTY of 14 and 15 year old girls that turn out to be WONDERFUL mothers. (I work in a juvenile detention facility and see it all the time)

Answer 3

I read your other post they were just pictures and if he was hiding something he would not have shown you.  You have been through a traumatic experience with the ectopic pregnancy and your hormones are getting the better of you.  I know how you fell I had one 14 years ago. It will get better and you will have a baby someday.

Linda

Answer 4

I had an ectopic myself and went on to have a wonderful healthy son later. I didn't read your earlier question, but I just wanted to encourage you that you can survive and prosper.

Answer 5

I didn't read part 1 and if part 2 is any indication how part 1 was I decline to answer part 2 or even if there is a part 3...

Respectfully yours,

Mike Hunt

Answer 6

You spelled realize wrong.

You have got to be kidding me.  I get 2 thumbs down because I point out a typographical error?  This is why society is so stupid in general.  Fine, keep them coming.

Answer 7

That's my point and you will frequently remember those photos for a long time.They may not mean anything to him but they do to you.If you except it now what do you think will happen later.Are you prepared to ignore his every phone call,his hol whatever that is,lol...Can you forget about those photos and one that may come or will you torture yourself with worry and a baby?Think carefully remember you are talking about an innocent life as well as your future...Love Ya!..Blessings Yahoo