Should i stay with him?

Question

Okay so im 16..hes 21 and has a kid but is a really nice guy and seems to have his head screwed on im not naive i know what im doing. but thing is we met 2nyts ago and he asked me out that night and i really liked him so i sed yes (which i dont do very often as i have problems trusting people). So yeh problem is i had to go home at 10ish tonight and i had been with him all day and he wanted s*x but wasnt going to force me into anything or anything so we just kissed etc. but he said to his mate if i take a notion i want s*x ill get it an he sounded kinda jokey but i never really thought anything off it. He asked me when i left to ring him later so i rang him an it nearly rang off wen he picked up an i cud hear a gurl in th background an i asked where he was an he sed in th flat (where he livs alone) and i asked who he was with and im not sure what he said but it was definately just him and her ther an she asked who it was and he said the wife and she said something about girlfriend?! and sounded kinda shocked...then he said he ripped his jeans and i asked how he did it and he sed to be honest i dont know because im that drunk so im thinkin he wanted s*x earlier, said if he wanted it he would get it, and him and a girl are alone in his flat!!! I could forgive him and just act like it didnt happen cause i rele lik him and hes rele sweet and hes the kind ov guy i wud jus love to be with..am i being taken for a mug?! or am i just paranoid....what should i do please help!

Answer 1

He sounds like an idot

Linda

Answer 2

your grammar and spelling is terrible  

Answer 3

I only read the first sentence and I say leave him.....

Answer 4

  You're 16 and he's 21.  He's fast on his way to being a criminal.  He's a pervert and you need to get away from him.  I'm sure his wife/girlfriend would want to divorce his creepy asz if she knew he was hitting on a 16 year old.  Anybody that has a daughter is going to shudder reading this.      

Answer 5

Run!  As fast you can!  Dump the bum.

Answer 6

2 nights ago isn't long......leave him now while you still can.

He's 21 hanging out and "dating" 16 year olds...... sad!

Answer 7

do not speak to him again unless you want to be cheated on. end of story.

Answer 8

Your 16! Not only should not stay with him he should be arrested for s*x with a minor

Answer 9

he's 21, yes you are naive, find someone your own age.  he has a child and obviously other girls on the side.