Should i still be friends with this guy??

Question

I've liked this guy 4 a yr i told him and he said he likes me too but he didn't want a gf 4 another yr so i excepted that and we tell each love u b 4 we hang up but then i just recently found out that he got w/ this girl but he didn't even have the decency 2 tell me i found out through myspace and then i called him and asked him about it and he told me they had just got together a few days ago but then i found out wenever he told me that they had been 2 gether 4 almost 3 wks and i get very poed and told him 2 put himself in my shoes and he told me 2 just get over it and that i should b happy 4 him But i still like him and kinda want 2 still b friends wit him but idk if i should or not??

Answer 1

Just move on even though it's hard

but trust me if you keep talking to him

he will just hurt you even more

is that what you want to get hurt?

Answer 2

uhm yeah you should still be friends with him.

you guys wernt going out so he can date whoever he wants.

i can see why your upset

but you shouldnt have flipped at him.. you probably creeped him out.  

Answer 3

Of course..not. Obviously he isn't a REAL friend if he is going to do that to you. And then you found out on myspace? That's just messed up. So my answer overall is no. Obviously he doesn't understand what he put you through.

Answer 4

It sounds like he is not even a true friend at all.  He stabbed your heart just like that.  Now, it depends on you, you could be friends with him and be happy for him.

Answer 5

Honestly, I think you shouldn't deal with him any more. Instead of him being honest with you by telling you how he really feel towards you. He's playing games. I would call it "having his cake and eat it too". He might like you but for some unknown reason. Only he could answer that question. See, men have different women for different reasons. You just need to see what category you fall under maybe it's money, conversation, s*x or someone he could just befriend! He probably just have you on the back burner just in case something else doesn't work out! Our body is our temples so take care of it! and don't get abused by men! Peace!

Answer 6

Well if he thinks you're psychotic it doesn't really matter, because it's his decision if he wants to be friends with you.