Should i still be her friend?

Question

This girl Julia who used to be my bff,ignores me all the time and she is COMPLETELY spoiled.She's spoiled because she got a Wii for xmas,a trip to the bahamas with a friend by herself for Her b-day,her uncle said she can have his hummer when she's 17,and she gets EVERYTHING she wants.Should i still be her friend? She also gets everything from aeropostale.She said ''why dont u shop at aeropostale" i said well my parents cant really afford it and then she said "Haha! Your POOR!' I'm having a b-day party and my mom wants me to invite her but i dont want to.

Answer 1

No, if that girl ever comes up to you and says that $hit about you again, pull her hair hard, and sock her in the teeth. That would show her how much of a spoiled b*tch she is! And also, make new friends. You don't need to be friends with this w***e that you call a "friend".

Answer 2

She sound caught up in things. Show her you are fine without her and keep your head high. She, if worth it will come off her high horse and be your friend again.

If not, find friends that like you for who you are and not what brand clothing you have.

Brand names are a waste of money, the are in for a few months, then garbage. You are smart not to waste your money on them.

Good luck to you.

Answer 3

If I was ever her friend, even though I never would be in the first place, I'd stop. I don't care that someone is rich, but when she brags, or shows off about it that's what would get me ticked. I just not answer her calls, ignore her, and give her the cold shoulder. See how she likes a taste of her own medicine! Tell your mom you DO NOT want to invite her. And if you have to invite her to your birthday, ignore her the whole time, and just keep your distance. She'll understand eventually.

Answer 4

No.

Answer 5

If she is really s****. about getting everything she wants and puts you and your family down in the mean time then no I wouldn't be her friend.  But if you are just jealous of her that is no reason to not be her friend.  Good Luck!

Answer 6

This is how my ex-bff is. Except it's not the rich thing, it's relion. There family thinks there SOO much better than anyone else. Really, get another friend. It will save you a lot of agrivation later on.

Answer 7

That seems a bit like an abusive relationship if you ask me -- real friends definitely wouldn't think it's fun to make fun of friends whose parents maybe either don't have as much money *or* just choose to use what they have more carefully.  Kids who also get an excessive amount of stuff just because their family will let them just aren't that much fun to be around since they're often rather shallow and materialistic.  I'm sure you can do better than that.

I'd talk with your mom about why you really don't want to invite her to your party. . . she may not know how this really is and thinks it's just another one of those "I hate you this week, but we can be friends again next week" situations.  I could see her wanting to make sure that you don't leave out one of your good friends over something silly if she doesn't know better.

Answer 8

Some kids are just like that, because their parents think that money can buy them happiness.  You have to decide for yourself if you want to stay friends with someone that acts that way.  I think you should tell  your Mom exactly why you don't want to invite her to your birthday and see what she says.

Answer 9

tell your mom what she is saying to you! your mom wouldn't want her at your b-day party if she knew your friend was making fun of you because you cant shop at aeropostale. if you give your mom a good reason that your friend shouldn't come over then I'm sure she will listen. besides its your birthday party you should get to make the invite list or whatever! i hope i helped.

Answer 10

if she laughed in your face and called you poor, then she is not your bff.

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Answer 11

Don't blame your friend for being rich okay? Also if she talks about expensive stuffs bec  i that's all she's exposed to and that's the language of the rich.  I thought my hubby's group was also spoiled rotten rich kids bec all they talked about, i din't have. I felt envious, out of place and strange why i was with them.  Then I realized that they weren't flaunting all their stuff to me.  Its the way they are when they're together. Either you join the ride or take another cab. Friendship is not about wii or anything. It's about how you both value each other.  Take it from there.

Answer 12

Don't let her talk to you that way.  Get smart back.  Don't let that I have more than you thing bother you.  Talk to her about it, say that it really bothers you that she ignores you, and calls you poor.  As far as Aeropostale goes, they aren't all that expensive.  Try to catch the sales if you can.  Just know that she will not learn much of anything being spoiled.  Believe me I know.  As far as your b-day party goes, don't invite her.  It is too risky.  She may be very mean to you again.  Do what you feel is right.  bff doen't treat each other that way.  keep that in mind

Answer 13

She has proven to you she is not really your friend.

Real friends don't treat their friends that way.

Dump her and get a new friend.  One who treats you right and with respect.  Don't invite her to your party because she is no longer your friend.

Answer 14

personally i would ignore her, eventually she will work her way through loads of friends who are not as rich as she is, and probably have no friends then she will be lonely, then she'll ahve a good look at herself and realise who her real friends were and come creeping back!!!!!

Answer 15

Well gee if she is so rich maybe she will bring a nice present! Look hon there will always be "those" girls who have more than you and some are nice but most are spoiled rotten. If you dont want her there - talk with your Mom and tell her what you told us.

It doesnt sound like you are terribly poor- you are having a party and all. I would just ignor her catty remarks and realize that having it all is nothing if you have no real friends and family who loves you.

Answer 16

If she is saying that you're poor and being a brat about it then I would say no you shouldn't be her friend. Friend don't act like that.

Answer 17

find a new friend she is a brat

Answer 18

i think it's time for a new bff

Answer 19

Make your own decision.

We can't do it for you.

and ps. aeropostale has ugly, cheap looking clothes anyway.

Answer 20

Don't invite her. Don't be her friend. If she expects you to be her friend still, she must have some kind of mental problem. FInd someone else.

Answer 21

She definately sounds like a spoiled brat. If the last part of your post wasn't there I would have said that there is no reason not to be her friend but to hear that she is making you feel bad because you don't have as much money as she does or because you don't shop at the same stores as she does then she is not someone you need to be associating with. I would just explain that to your mother and let her know that if you invite her she will more than likely just put everyone down and make nasty comments about how your parents did not spend enough money on your party. Im sure your mom will understand. If she doesn't then just tell her you invited her but don't. I know I should not tell you to lie but there is no reason for you to be friends with her anymore.

Answer 22

she doesn't sound like she is very nice, but aeropostale is not expensive and neither is a WII so she doesn't sound that rich