Should i still go?

Question

im thinking about going swimming with some friends for my 17th birthday, but the only thing stopping me is the thought of having to wear a swim suit/bikini!! im a thin person but ive got a realy flabby bloated stomach which is hidden by clothes and they would be shocked to see my big embarassing stomach!!

thanks!!!!!!!!!11111111

Answer 1

I'm sure your tummy isnt as bad as you think! But how about doing something else instead like bowling or seeing a movie?

Answer 2

If you want to go swimming then go, if your friends are actual friends then they won't care about your stomach, but if you feel that strongly about it then do something else that you love.

Don't let this ruin your birthday, Good Luck :)

Answer 3

I agree with everyone above me.....i bet u it really isn;t that bad, just think it is

if u are concered wear a tankini...that will cover ur stomach while still being a two piece.....try to wear one in a dark color (the darker the better) when colors are dark, it slims u down and makes u seem skinnier thatn u are

also, every night before u go to bed try doing crunches ON UR BED. put ur legs bent at a 90 degree angle and then lift them off the grounhd and hold them to ur chest. then do maybe 3 X 100 crunches. do that every night and u will get stronger in no time

btw, doing them on ur bed is harder than doing them on teh ground....something about how the bed is softish and has give.....

Answer 4

Your friends probably aren't perfect either. They're going with you to have fun, not set up a date or model for the talent show. Relax and have fun.

If it bothers you that bad, get a top that has a piece of cloth that hangs down. Still a bikini, but offers some coverage.

Good luck

TopCatt

Answer 5

If your friends are real friends they wont care what you look like.Dont let looks spil your fun

Answer 6

hey honk honk. i have seen many of your questions and i am the same relationship wise. if you have msn then we can chat and stuff.  thanks ;)

Answer 7

u could always wear a one piece?

Answer 8

you shouldn't freak over your stomach, if people can't see past it, they aren't nice people or friends. Don't be scared, have a good time, and don't worry about your stomach, everyone has something about them that they feel uncomfortable about...