Should i stop being friends with her?

Question

i've been friends with this girl for about 2 years, i met her through my other friend cuz we all used to go out together. our mutual friend moved to florida so now we've been going out together and every time we go out, there is an issue. she always does something that annoys me. one time, she came upstairs to my house because she had to "pee", but as soon as she came out of the bathroom, she goes to my closet and she's like "i hate my outfit, can i wear one of yours", i wasn't too happy but i let her, and she borrowed my shoes too! we get to the club, she gets soo drunk & ends up spilling her red drink all over the dress she borrowed!! she said she was going to pay for the dry cleaning, but she was taking too long so i just paid myself. then we went out another time with another friend of mine (thank God she came) and this girl ended up getting soo drunk again that she left us to go home with some dude!! and she had drove that night so we had to pay for a cab!

Answer 1

people like that p**s me off, if i were you i would get rid of her.

Answer 2

You need to stay away from this crude, rude person.  You can find better people that that to hang around with.

Answer 3

yes please! shes not a real friend. real friends wouldnt do you like that to you. ive had friends that did me like that but i let them go. no more drama.

Answer 4

That doesn't sound like much of a friend to me. You need to cut her loose. I'm starting to think your friend moved to florida to get away from her!

Answer 5

Yes, you should stop.  I don't think you're going to change her to the type of friend you want and deserve.  For future reference, though, please realize that you enabled some of her behavior and try not to do that with your future friends.

Answer 6

In my openion I think you haveto cut your relationship with her because shes using of you.Im a girl and I know girls better.there are many girls that get friend with someone just for using of all the equipment that boys give them.but if you really love her you can talk with her and try to undrestand her that some of her behaviors arent good so if she love you to she will change her behavior.I will be happy if you answer my question too.or email me to [e-mail]

thank you

Answer 7

i mean i think you shud just try like sitting down with her one on one and telling her how u relly feel about the way she acts in the nicest way possible. mayb she will stop botherin u so much or get the clue that she is being annoyin.

Answer 8

Of course you do, I've had to "cut-out" many "friends in my time. Some you love, and are willing to put up with petty bull c**p like this (and it is all petty, but it add up, I know).

If you are sick of her...SNIP<SNIP!

Answer 9

mmm...well she seems unreliable...I'm not really the type to help...really I'm only in this section cuz it came up as a contact asked q....but

i guess you can be cool with her..you know some of those friends you have u juss say a simple hi to...or a short convo....juss don't make plans with her...im juss speakin on what i'd do..

but yeah?? goin to strip clubs huh?...ladies there know me as strip name "notorious b.i.g." if u get what im sayin......juss playin...

Answer 10

okk so I have had PLENTY of friends that are like that. Most of the time I personally just do the same to them. If not that sit her down an tell her what she is doing is really s**+-tty an if she really wants to keep acting like that then she doesnt need to continue to be around you. Be sure that when you do talk to her to tell her that borrowing your things is NOT ok.

Answer 11

f*ck that S**t mama, your girls a smooch and shes pretty much flaky. Def. dead that friendship.

Answer 12

yeah you do. it doesnt sound like shes worth being around

Answer 13

Get rid of her. The reason you're contemplating this friendship is because she probably has some good qualities, but from an outside view... dude.. she's gotta go.

Answer 14

If you're not happy in her presence then there's no reason for you to hang out with her.  It sounds like she's doing the exact opposite of what a friend should be doing.

Yes, "dead" her.

Answer 15

h**l yeah

Answer 16

Yes, next time she comes over, throw her out on her @ss,

Uncle Phil style

edit or the next time she gets really drunk, beat the ever livin' SHlT outta her and say it was some girl............... In Da Club

Answer 17

I would first try and talk to her by saying every time we go out you get way to blissed to the point that is dangerous.  I would say to her we need to plan on having a good time minimize the liquor and maximize the fun. if that doe's not happen its  a wrap.

Answer 18

She sounds like more of a problem to be around than fun. She is no friend. She is looking for someone to take care of her when she gets drunk.  Find someone else to go out with.  She is not worth the trouble.  Besides, it sounds like she needs to start spending some time at some AA meetings.